Posted by:
Amyjo
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Date: October 01, 2017 11:50AM
AfraidOfMormons Wrote:
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> Most of us are trying to shut down the Morg.
>
> In the meantime--you can shut it out of your
> life!
>
> I'm afraid of the Mormons' lack of boundaries,
> lack of shame, and lack of respect for others.
> I'm afraid of their physical abuse, because of bad
> experiences my children and I have had, when we
> were members.
>
> We resigned, officially, and most of the
> harassment and abuse has stopped. Resigning is
> the only thing that has ever worked. Write down
> all your issues, in your letter of resignation.
> There are instructions on RFM on how to resign.
This is what I had to do as well. For me and my children. Sadly, the harassment didn't stop, but it was placed on hold for a few years.
>
> Cutekitty and AzSteve are not exaggerating.
> Mormonism is an evil cult, evil to the core, based
> on lies, made up for evil purposes (money, sex,
> power), made up by evil con-men.
I've learned this the hard way when the cult came between me and my children. For that there can be no forgiveness. It is evil through and through!
>
> Cutekitty, you might be in the anger stage of
> letting go. I was very angry for about 3 years!
> Now, the anger just flares every once in a while,
> when I learn something new the cult has done, and
> when the cult hurts someone I care about.
>
> When you're afraid of something, there is always
> the option of avoiding, running away! For
> example, I'm afraid of street gangs, so I stay out
> of their neighborhoods, lock my house, avoid
> contact with gangs as much as possible. Also, if
> a gang of masked hooligans were to knock on my
> door, I would not answer. I would not invite them
> inside. I would not talk to thieves about my
> money. I certainly would not introduce a gangster
> to my children. This is just common sense.
>
> Guarding yourself and your family against Mormons
> is the same kind of common sense. The Mormons
> themselves have brainwashed you into thinking they
> are good people, that should be given 10% of all
> your earnings, and that you should attend a yearly
> "tithing settlement", and reveal your financials
> to them. (They don't reveal their financials to
> you, however.) Mormons are liars--just like a
> gang of robbers--who have manipulated you into
> trusting them with your innermost secrets, and
> trusting them with your children and family.
>
> YOU are the WISE ONE! YOU have a RIGHT to protect
> yourself! If you are older, and alone, you need
> to be much more careful! Mormons prey on the
> weak!
In agreement here. We've seen it time and again.
>
> A Mormon couple (friends for 40 years) from our
> ward came to my visit my 80+ year old parents,
> when my father was dying of cancer. It was to be
> a "private" visit. They stayed so late, that I
> finally had to go into the living room, and
> explain that my very-ill parents usually went to
> bed two hours ago, and that they should continue
> the meeting another time. After an other hour
> went by, the couple finally left. My father said
> that the couple had tried to talk my parents into
> leaving money to BYU, in their Will! Finally,
> they wore my father down, and he caved in and
> wrote a huge check to BYU. It was almost
> midnight, but I called my brother, who was
> executor to my father's estate, and he and my
> father stopped payment on the check the next
> morning.
This is nothing other than ELDER ABUSE. Those people ought to be banned from ever setting foot inside your parents home again. That is just sick what they did to them.
>
> Your gut instincts are right, Cutekitty! Be very
> careful. Do you have a family member you trust?
> Do you have an attorney?
>
> Don't let them bully you--promise me! Yes, your
> bishop is bullying you!
>
> Flushing Mormons out of my life was actually fun!
> The first thing I did was officially resign WITH
> MY CHILDREN.
> I drilled a hole in my front door, and installed a
> peep-hole.
> I don't answer the door to Mormons
> It helps to tell Mormons that we are Lutherans,
> now.
> I have a support system, with strong sons and
> sons-in law living nearby.
> Don't let them know you are living alone, if you
> are.
> You have the right to call the police, and report
> trespassers.
> Get a dog that will bark if anyone comes on your
> property.
> Put up a "no solicitors" sign on your door.
> If Mormons continue to ring your doorbell, you can
> yell through the door:
>
> "No Soliciting"
>
> YOU can put up your own boundaries. You can go to
> any church you want. You will discover that
> Christian churches have sermons that actually
> uplift and inspire you! You will find real
> friends, there.
>
> I have some older widows who had their ward
> boundaries changed, just like you did. Most of
> their other friends were "assimilated" by a
> different ward, and these ladies are all alone.
> One lady resigned from Mormonism, and goes to the
> nearby Methodist church. Another lady owns a
> condo in Park City, and she goes to church there.
> The other lady goes to her assigned ward, and sits
> alone in the back, and is very lonely.
Mormons do not value the elderly among them. They sit in the back. They sit alone. They're ignored. Under appreciated. Isolated. It's no wonder they drop out as they age and stop going to meetings. Where I worship now the elderly are highly valued, and well treated with respect and the dignity they're entitled to as valued members of the community. It's a huge difference to me. The members where I go now commonly live into their 90's and 100 or more. They are prized and cherished beyond measure. In the Mormon cult they are an afterthought.
>
> No matter what you decide to do--do something--and
> the anger will eventually go away. Make the abuse
> STOP. My advice is to not give the cult one more
> dime of your money. You are not obligated to
> them. The Mormons have no authority over you!
>
> (((hugs)))
>
> Oh yeah, I like to do things alone, but I do live
> with family, and have a people-oriented job, to
> balance out the solitude.
>
> --It's actually fun to go places alone. You can
> leave early, or stay longer, if you want. You can
> do things on a whim, without advance planning.
> You can wear whatever you live, and not a skirt.
> --I like to go see the fall colors, alone, and I
> can stop the car and get out wherever I want.
> --I go to the movies alone, at odd times, in the
> afternoon, and skip the annoying previews, and sit
> anywhere I want.
> --I go to the library alone, to read, unbothered.
>
> --I walk alone, with my dog, so I can exercise at
> my own pace, for as long as I feel like.
> --I go to the operas alone, because no one I know
> likes opera, and it's nice to not have someone
> sitting next to you and complaining the whole
> time.
> --I shop alone. It's faster and more efficient.
> --I go to the dentist, doctor, hair salon, etc.,
> alone. Why force someone else to wait?
>
> Sorry for the rant. One last point. Friends are
> overrated. Mormons are forced to be "friendly" to
> bring in new converts. The most important, most
> valuable Love is the Love you have in your own
> heart, the Love you give to others.
I've learned to enjoy solitude. Have always been an introvert and introspective. It is age and time that is teaching me wisdom and acceptance of who I am. That's one of the most valuable lessons I've learned in this go-a-round.