Posted by:
Very Afraid
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Date: November 03, 2017 07:55PM
Anger can be healthy. Once you identify your Mormon adversaries as such, and come up with boundaries for them, and learn how to deal with them assertively, you won't have to think about it so much.
Imagine how I must feel, having the Mormons harass my children and grandchildren! Imagine how those posters feel when the cult gets its hooks into a beloved spouse! I would go ballistic, if the Mormon cult destroyed a valued relationship, like that.
Another poster had a thread about this, and he said that we are probably helpless in obliterating the cult, in this generation. Especially, the LDS, Inc. cult as a wealthy business is here to stay. However, he would never give up the battle against the Mormon cult--on a personal and family level. Maybe that's all we can do right now, when we are healing, when we are struggling to keep Mormonism from tearing our families apart.
If each one of us flushes Mormonism out of our life, that can add up to a ton of members lost. I get great satisfaction out of seeing entire families resign together! Save the children!
You WILL be able to separate yourself from Mormonism. It takes concentrated effort, like you are putting into getting well, right now. None of us like Mormons trampling over our boundaries, like we are nobody. All boundaries need maintaining, and adjusting. You can't put up a wall, and have it never fall down, because life and nature and people will tear it down. Keep building it and repairing it, and moving it, when you need to. The maintenance of an established boundary is much less work than building it was.
You don't think so now, but soon you will be able to ignore the Mormons more and more. You will reach a point where you don't care what the crazy weird ones think of you.
A lot of ex-Mormons people have to move away from Utah and the Moridor. A lot of ex-Mormons, like me, have had to completely cut off all contact with toxic Mormons. I'm much happier without having to deal with my physically abusive ex-husband, my crook nephew who stole money from the family, and former fake friends in our ward, who shunned me and threatened me, and told malicious lies about me in front of my children.
"GONE!"
My favorite line in "Christmas Vacation". Griswold closes the front door on the screaming neighbor and the crazed squirrel and all the chaos. "Gone!"