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afraid of mormons
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Date: December 24, 2017 01:40PM
My boys both got their Eagle Scout awards. For their Eagle Scout project was completed with a group, and they cleaned up and improved an inner city park, that had become run-down. They raised money for the improvements, and persuaded the community to contribute, also. The Scouts and their troops did the landscaping, and built a fence, themselves. It was a great experience!
My sons had some fabulous camping and hiking excursions into the Wind Rivers, Yosemite, Coronado Island, Yellowstone in winter. There was actually a "Whale Watching" merit badge, which they earned off the coast of California. They made life-long friends. One friend is now my son's business partner. The Scout leaders were good fathers, and good examples to my sons, which meant a lot to me, because my sons' father abandoned them. They are now good fathers, themselves, and they take their own children camping and hiking.
Their scout troop was not a Mormon sponsored troop. It was sponsored by a coalition of neighborhood Christian churches, including the Methodist, Presbyterian, Lutheran, and a non-denominational Christian church (in which one son was married).
The leaders and parents of this scout troop are still my closest friends and neighbors, to this day. (I lost all my Mormon friends, when we resigned.)
The Mormons are making some stupid changes. Scouting can be a great experience for a lot of boys. My sons love nature, are extroverts, and are athletic, so they fit that kind of mold. Scouting isn't for everyone. As a TBM mother, I had my sons give the Mormon scout troop a try, when we first moved into the neighborhood, but my sons did not like the bullying and the authoritarianism. There was no camaraderie, and most of the boys weren't in it by choice, and they slid by, and fudged on the badge requirements, etc. They were also pushed to get their Eagle Scout awards as soon as possible, some at 14 and 15--what was that about? It was like a competitive race, or something. My sons wanted to quit scouts, altogether, but their friends at school convinced them to join the Christian troop. They had "Explorers" for the older boys. I would recommend this! IF your sons really want it.
Ugh--no one is going to enjoy temple work. I suspect that the activities will be coed. Big mistake. Boys and girls need to have their own separate fun, at that age. Mormons have always tried to have mixers, and force dating, before kids had any enthusiasm for it. I guess Mormons want to push kids into early marriages and into producing BIC babies--before they develop adult-thinking brains. Definitely, the Mormons want to push missions onto younger and younger kids with undeveloped brains.