Posted by:
curious non-mormon
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Date: January 26, 2018 01:46PM
I've had two of my ex-mormon friends lose parents recently and attended both funerals.
I noticed something similar at both in that the active mormon siblings seemed to be far less emotional and even a bit non-chalant when speaking about the parent then my ex-mormon friends who were both grieving in a way that it was evident they had a hard time speaking and making sense.
It almost seemed like the mormon siblings at both funerals were robot-like and the ex-mos were showing real emotion.
I also noticed it seemed that people were uncomfortable when both ex-mormons gave thoughts because their grief was so evident, but laughed and lightened up when the mormons spoke.
I would chalk it up to "people grieve differently" but it was so similar in both situations that it made me wonder whether it was common at mormon funerals.