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stormy's one and only
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Date: June 07, 2011 01:53AM
My confirmation was sat at the Cathedral...all adults with the Bishop, a real one presiding. Stormy was my sponsor. The boys were there. No one else. Certainly no one from out west.
Storm had her hand on my shoulder throughout the sacrament. It was reassuring to feel her hand. One of the deacons wanted to do it but storm said no, I will do it. He knew better than to argue. First Communion followed the confirmation, already did first confession which is difficult when you aren't use to it but great when you're done.
We went home changed clothes and went swimming. then later cleaned up and just the four of us went out to dinner. My Mom called later since she knew what was happened and actually said, though she wished I was still Mormon, she was happy that I was happy. Big break through, she didn't cry or sniffle.
This event clears the road for storm and I to be married sacramentally in the Catholic Church.
It's been a long road out of Mormonism. Looking back, I can see the complete indocrination starting from when we first go to Primary. It never stops, it keeps going on, no wonder Mormons can't see anything else. It's so ingrained from we're little ones. You never have time to think or learn anything else.
Some times I think guys have it easier. Not so much perfection expected but then again maybe not. There's that stupid time wasting mission, the feeling of superiority they confer on males at each step. No time to think about anything.
Storm taught me that. Stop and look around what do you see? It took a divorce and losing her before I looked around and found my out. What a waste of time being a Mormon was for me. It caused a lot of hurt. I resent it for that reason.
But with a smile and a light heart and storm by me, I gladly became a Catholic. It felt like it was where I suppose to be for many years but didn't know it. Even though there are things about the Catholic Church worthy of criticism but no one forces it on you and believe not one Catholic ever knocked on my door saying they are the true church, oh yes no profits..
Our boys were extremely happy. They felt important because they could tell me all sorts of things they were sure I didn't know. And they were only family with us.
Storm has been so steadfast, I absolutely know I don't deserve her but I'm so happy and lucky she gave us another chance.
Jake