Posted by:
Pharmakos
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Date: June 30, 2018 12:47PM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQaotscZuL8I love watching clips from this impressive guy.
His argument is that abusers rather want to talk about what is bad in life but will put down every attempt to get new perspectives or attempts to make a critical change in life.
I have this problem with two siblings. They gaslight och stonewall constructive arguments but are open to talk about my problems.
If I tell them that I experienced something that changed my perspective in life they downplay it, "No, Pharmakos, it is not like that, you are dead wrong" but if I talk about feeling blue or stuck they are 100% behind me.