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Posted by: ziller ( )
Date: July 20, 2018 06:35PM

the amazon guy jus delivered Sister Cheryl's book to the beach shack ~


ziller am excite ~


brb ~ read to page 4 ~


will-read-the-whole-thing/10 ~

(srs) ~


brb ~ ziller finds it disconcerting that the book has no pics ~


will still read tho ~


https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,2121764,2130604#msg-2130604

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: July 20, 2018 10:11PM

Here's a review of the book for a TBM literary organization. They liked it and I think anyone who gives it a read won't be disappointed.


Vaught, “Plural Bride to Be” (reviewed by Rebekah Cuevas)
Review

Title: Plural Bride to Be
Author: Cheryl Vaught
Publisher: Andrew Benzie Books
Genre: Historical fiction
Year Published: 2018
Number of Pages: 332
Binding: paperback
ISBN10: N/A
ISBN13: 9781941713679
Price: $12.95 US

Reviewed by Rebekah Cuevas for the Association for Mormon Letters

Set in 1950s rural Utah during “Operation Seagull,” which resulted in the mass arrest of dozens of polygamy practitioners along the Utah/Arizona border, Plural Bride to Be by Cheryl Vaught traverses the factious world of post-polygamy Mormonism from the perspectives of two very different characters: twelve-year-old Karen Hardy and Jewish FBI agent Ben Wolfowitz.

Although Karen is by far the most compelling character, and whose welfare drives the momentum of the plot, it’s through Ben’s eyes that we witness a nation’s efforts to squash the practice of polygamy in a state peopled with the descendants of polygamous Mormon pioneers. Needless to say, Ben’s assignment to uproot the area’s lingering factions of polygamous splinter groups is not met with ready cooperation. Most people just want to forget that polygamy ever happened, much like they try to turn a puritanical blind eye to the existence of 25th Street and the Ko Ko Mo Club, the seedier parts of town where Ben and his ex-Mormon partner Jack go to sleuth and drink.

Inheritors of insurrection and a deep-seated persecution complex, many of the Mormons Ben must contend with harbor their ancestors’ disdain for “outside agitators” even while outwardly disavowing the practice of polygamy. And it’s among these mainstreamers that Karen Hardy’s family must blend if they want to continue benefiting from the advantages of being active and worthy members of the church that runs just about everything in their society.

The problem is that the Hardys remain loyal to the self-proclaimed prophet Hyrum LeGrande, who is hiding out in trailers on Hardy property along with two of his five wives. If their loyalties—and LeGrande—are found out, Karen’s family risks excommunication from the Mormon church and her father could go to jail. Secrecy is paramount, but Karen is sick of secrets and she hates LeGrande, who begins grooming her as his next plural bride even though he’s old enough to be her grandfather.

Her age, she learns, is not an impediment, but an advantage. She overhears him tell her father, “Any worthy man can control his wives if they marry before they’re set in their ways. I assure you, my greatest pleasure is molding a pure sweet girl who is still as supple as potter’s clay” (pg 10). Every scene with LeGrande gives the reader, as Karen puts it, the “heebie-jeebies.”

One of the strongest aspects of Vaught’s semi-autobiographical novel is the dialogue. While the subject itself is utterly fascinating, and concern for Karen keeps the reader turning pages, Vaught does lancing justice to the cadence and vernacular of Mormon orthodoxy and fundamentalism. And that includes more than the colloquial classics “heck” and “gosh.”

At every turn Karen is bombarded with dogma and rebuke phrased in such a way that readers familiar with the culture and dialect will either take it for granted or start hearing the voices of their past. “Outsiders” of the culture can read this book and trust that the things said to Karen are things that have been said to Mormon children through the earliest generations of the church and echo to the present day: lessons on women’s roles and responsibilities to male priesthood holders, lessons on race and the eternal implications of skin color, and of course, lessons on faith and surrendering one’s judgment to the word of God as interpreted by a prophet.

Vaught successfully makes the reader care about Karen not only because she’s a child in danger, but because she represents other victims of dogma and abuse whose stories must continue to be told. In the book, Karen’s “crime” is merely that she asks questions, questions born of curiosity in the “way things are” and how those same things might be in the outside world.

Karen is all of us, or at least the way we should be. And for that reason, I strongly recommend this book to anyone interested in a well-told insider’s view of “the way things were” — at least on one farm in post-polygamy, Cold War-era Utah.

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Posted by: Eric K ( )
Date: July 21, 2018 08:56AM

What a great review.

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Posted by: Laban's Head ( )
Date: July 22, 2018 04:30PM

So glad to read the great review. I thoroughly enjoyed your book. I was moved and drawn in. The characters were alive and so true. I think we all know one of each.

As an aside, two favorite things: 1) loved the comparison to cardboard cutouts. Truer words were never spoken. 2) Our family dog was named Spud so I love that also.

is there another book in the future?

Thanks for this one.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: July 22, 2018 04:58PM

Your dog is also Spud? It's a great name.

I just noticed that my book is available on Kindle and Amazon in Germany. Von Daisy (Whoever that kind person is.) wrote and posted a lovely review.

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Posted by: catnip ( )
Date: July 23, 2018 12:40AM

Your book was absolutely riveting! I loved the way you captured the LDS culture from both the inside and the outside. The perspective of Ben Wolfowitz, who could not have been more of an outsider if he tried, brought an extraordinary dimension into the story.

As a deeply disillusioned adult convert, I am horrified at the prospect of innocent children being born and raised into this twisted religion. One of the families that "friended" me as a new convert (I was a divorced single mom at the time) had a paterfamilias who seemed very nice toward me.

After I had moved to another state, I happened to call the wife of this family, and she asked me, "Did you ever realize that F. [her husband] was trying to come onto you?" She sighed, and said, "I didn't think you did. You were way too naive and innocent." Apparently this guy had strayed and had affairs, been ex'ed and re-baptized, etc, etc. I was stunned to think that he had had his eye on me. And here I thought that Mormon families were, by definition, FAITHFUL!!

As a counselor in the Beehives, I had become very close to their two daughters. The older one had been married in the temple and tragically widowed less than a year later. I heard from my son that the younger daughter had been the most renowned "swinger" at their school.

Among my other favorite Beehives were a pair of twins. I ran into them - and their single mother - while shopping on a Sunday. One of them said, "Sister Catnip! You're SHOPPING on SUNDAY!!" I said, "I won't tell, if you don't." We all burst into mischievous laughter and promised not to snitch.

That was my first ward, which, all things considered, I enjoyed very much. After I moved closer to the Morridor, things were not nearly as interesting.

I'm really glad I didn't grow up in the church. I had some perspective of what other churches were like, and that made all the difference.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: July 23, 2018 10:57AM

Thank you, "Daisy." That was a fun clue.

I'm glad you had a nonmo outlook to help you leave mormonism.

I so appreciate your comments! They're very helpful to me because I know you are an avid and insightful reader and writer.

Hopefully, you done with illness and treatments and are recuperating comfortably.

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Posted by: Susan I/S ( )
Date: July 21, 2018 05:00AM

I love this part :)

Karen’s “crime” is merely that she asks questions, questions born of curiosity in the “way things are” and how those same things might be in the outside world.

I think so many of us can relate to that!

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Posted by: Amyjo ( )
Date: July 22, 2018 11:29PM

^^^this^^^^

:)

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Posted by: Margie ( )
Date: July 23, 2018 11:45AM

I just downloaded the book on my Kindle.Looking forward to reading it!

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Posted by: presleynfactsrock ( )
Date: July 23, 2018 02:21PM

Also have it on my kindle and looking forward to reading.

Nice review!

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Posted by: donbagley ( )
Date: July 23, 2018 04:24PM

Topping, because it's a well written book.

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