Posted by:
Beth
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Date: July 27, 2018 10:48AM
"I would never wear my hair like that."
^^^ Then don't.
"Why is s/he wearing that dress?"
^^^ Go ask her/him, not me.
"Why did they pierce their ______"
^^^ Go ask them.
IOW, don't judge. Ask yourself if you are truly curious about the whys or are more concerned with something someone has chosen to do. If you can't bring yourself to ask someone about whatever is bugging you, it's probably none of your business.
For those who are curious, I recommend a movie called "Modify".
https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0455980/I have one quibble with the movie's described history of suspension (I think it's more like the Sun Dance), otherwise, people explain why they've chosen to do what they've done. Take it for what it's worth to them and to you. You don't have to agree, but you also don't have to denigrate.
Until someone physically holds you down and forces you to get a tattoo, etc., you have no skin in the game.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/27/2018 10:49AM by Beth.