Posted by:
Mother Who Knows
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Date: November 26, 2018 08:11PM
Yes, it is scary!
Mormonism is a cult, not a church. You can't just stop attending, like you can in normal churches.
Remember, when you approach your bishop, that he has absolutely NO AUTHORITY OVER YOU. Mormons have no authority with God or Christ. It's all self-appointed, through others in their good ol' boy's club. They want your money. They want your time. They want names on their lists.
Your "calling" is not called from God or Christ. It's nothing but a VOLUNTEER job, and you have a RIGHT to stop volunteering. The Mormons are ruder than other groups in the world, so don't expect them to thank you for all your service and donations. Expect them to come beating on your door after 9:00 at night, in groups of two and three. It was scary for me, because I was living alone at the time. The only way to stop their harassment, and their abuse of my children, was to resign. Once, a priesthood leader picked up my son and tried to carry him out of my house, to a meeting he didn't want to go to. I had previously told them several times that my son had too much homework, and that school came first. I had to threaten to call the police, to make him stop, and get out of my house! Back 12 years ago the church kept stalling with my resignation, for 11 months, and I called the main office, and threatened to sue them, if they didn't agree to my resignation. The next day, I got a "letter of confirmation."
Even then, the letter of confirmation merely said my name was "removed from the rolls". The Mormon cult never says you are "resigned."
What did we expect from a nasty cult, anyway?
After you resign, expect to be shunned by most of the ward members. In my case, I don't want anything to do with people like that, anyway. My children and I have done very well, and are very happy, and we have good non-Mormon friends. We all live in the same neighborhood.
There are worse things than "offending" a few fake-friends, or embarrassing the bishop. Stand up for yourself!
Good luck--please return and report!
Oh yeah, don't let them string you along, by demanding that you find a substitute for your calling! Don't agree to stay on until they find someone else. You. Are. Done. Volunteering. If they can't find someone to take your place, that is their problem, not yours. Members are leaving that church in droves, and the cult should learn to be nicer to people.