Posted by:
Henry Bemis
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Date: January 07, 2019 10:27AM
"Mormonism is an amorphous, ever changing conglomerate of feelings and contradictory concepts and quotes, it's a cult. They can "prove" anything because they only have to resort to how they feel as proof. Please do the same thing. Don't let them pin you down with- what exactly do you...or, where did you read that? You are setting yourself up for a righteous indignation slobber-fest."
COMMENT: Mormonism, like all religions, has a set of "core doctrines" that are based upon truth claims that are subject to both historical and scientific evaluation. Although "feelings" represent a basic aspect of "testimony," such feelings do not exist in a vacuum of facts and context. In short, it is worthwhile to argue facts as applied to core doctrines in an effort to undermine Mormonism.
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"You need to understand that Mormon doctrine has extensive literature and teachings both pro and against every point of their own doctrine."
COMMENT: Not so! For example, that the Book of Mormon is real history is a core doctrine of Mormonism (at least for now), as is the reality of the First Vision. Both are subject to historical and scientific evaluation. Moreover, Mormon scripture is often clear and specific as to its claims, which are also subject to intellectual scrutiny. All of this represents ways to rationally undermine Mormonism, and upend testimony based solely on feelings.
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"Tell your family members that you just don't feel like its the right thing for you and you just know it and don't want to "bring the spirit of contention". Don't lead with I read online that...or did you know that Joseph smith...because at that point they see you as someone who has read their way out of the church. You might as well bring in a dead body into the living room and say- I can totally explain this..."
COMMENT: If you are not specific, they will view your position as uncertain, and based upon other motives. Again, engaging is worthwhile, as long as you have done your homework.
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"Another thing that Mormons use is feelings, if it has a good feeling, it's true. Use it against them, reiterate the great things that you believe about the gospel ,like forgiveness, kindness, service, families, not using heroine, etc tell that that is what attracted you to the church and unfortunately you don't agree that the church focuses on good principles anymore, if fact they have gotten so far away from Christian principles that you rather leave than to develop bad feelings, see this magnanimous and condescending approach is right out of their book."
COMMENT: So, you suggest that one stoop to their level of explanation; i.e. some vague comparison of "good Christian principles." Mormonism (like Christianity) is either true or false in its core doctrines. You do not undermine the truth of either by arguing moral "principles."
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"Tell them that you don't want to discuss specifics because you don't want to hurt their valuable testimony and hurt your relationship with them. Once you take the evil mask off, the Mormon fangs will recede. But please be good and kind in your break ups and use - it's not you, it's me line. Works much, much better, I promise."
COMMENT: This is all so much nonsense in my view. What I want to accomplish is to get my loved-ones (and others) out of Mormonism, and stop one line of this generational propagation of harmful nonsense. You can only do that by "hurting their valuable testimony."
Although, I do believe in respectful disagreement when interacting with Mormon family members and friends, and do not advocate an "in your face" attitude, your conciliatory approach strikes me as lazy at best and cowardly at worst.