Posted by:
Exminion
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Date: January 31, 2019 10:41PM
Live Well, while You plot your revenge.
Soon you will realize That just plotting is Enough.
For now, don’t do anything petty. You aren’t a Mormon anymore, and your standards of behavior are higher than theirs. For
Now, accept That your anger is normal and justified.
The posters above had bad experiences, like I did—and we all found such happiness,so much love,so many truly good people outside of Mormonism, that all the bad Mormon garbage eventually faded away. By the time I was in a position to “stick it to the Mormons” I didn’t want to go Back down that rabbit hole. Our (mine and my children’s) success has NOTHING to do with the Mormons, and I want to keep it that way!
Don’t let the Mormons determine anything You do. Seeking revenge or justification or compensation would be Mormon-driven. Above all, You want to be free.
In time, when you have moved on, you will agree.
Honestly, I think most Mormons are so blind and delusional, they wouldn’t understand any lesson you could teach them. For example, no matter how happy and full of love you are, the Mormons would just sneer at you and threaten you: “things seem great Now, on the surface—but wait until the next life!” Either that, or they think you are faking your success. The Mormons HAVE to win; otherwise their church might not be true.
I handled my immediate anger by posting on RFM. I wrote scathing letters to my abusers, but never mailed them, because I wanted
Nothing to do with them. I set and kept my own boundaries that no one else Had to know about.
I hear you! I’m a single divorced female. It’s been almost 13 years since I left, and I will never see those rude people ever again—and I still live in their neighborhood!
It helped me to think that I was and still am lucky to be shunned (better than to be harassed and abused, like before), and I get “satisfaction” when I think of the Mormons turning on themselves, criticizing, slandering, judging each other. And making constnt demands on each other.
Mormonism is a depressing society! Forget about them. Focus on your new life! You deserve joy!