Posted by:
Elder Berry
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Date: April 19, 2019 06:47PM
I'll never understand.
It is rife in Mormonism as well as all over the place.
If you don't want to be judged a bad person why put yourself in situations where it is bound to happen? Are these situations necessary for your survival? Are there not less judgmental alternatives?
Why do people do this to themselves? The BYU Honor Code is another similar thing. I'm an alumni and I knew going there what it was and I had read it. I didn't think it was guidance but a code of judgement, of me, as a person.
Why do people think they are victims of these judgmental jerks? They had to know that they didn't fit. I knew I didn't at BYU and I didn't break their rules.
Anyway, here is the poor mother's "trial" with her judges.
"It wasn't about whether they had their scholarship in place," Grant tearfully told the paper. "It was more or less about me just not living right. ... It was an uncomfortable conversation, but I sat through it because I really wanted my children to go to the school."
"This situation has really put me in a bind mentally," Grant said. "I can say I've done some 'not so ok things' in my life. Done some things I probably shouldn't have but I don't want to be judged as a bad person! [And] I especially don't want my kids to be judged for my actions."
"However I've been the same unmarried woman with children who have different fathers since the day he first accepted me [and] my children and the money for them to attend and that's where he's wrong."
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/us/mom-says-kids-kicked-out-of-school-because-shes-unmarried/ar-BBW6Szw?ocid=spartandhp