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Posted by: helamonster ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 04:22PM

Insofar as anyone involved with any of those things simply can't wait to throw them into any conversation, no matter how unrelated.

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Posted by: Tevai ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 05:51PM

From a cultural standpoint, I can see the commonality here.

The culture of the United States (as a unified nation and national identity) has been based, in large part, upon this very attribute.

We (as a nation) "try things out"--this is part of what "being American" means.

As we go through a period of "experimentation," we learn what is excellent or good, and what is flawed or distinctly NOT good....and over what is often a larger period of time (usually counted in terms of generations), we mostly keep the good and disappear the not-so-good.

It is possible that in the future, with hindsight, Mormonism will be included in the "flawed, or not so good" category.

From what I, as a nevermo, have been able to observe over the last fifteen years, this is exactly what is, in actuality, happening.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/23/2019 05:52PM by Tevai.

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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 07:05PM

I see the connection.

So many are looking for the ONE true thing to make their lives worthwhile. The ONE secret that gives life meaning. The ONE perfect exercise that makes you beautiful and healthy and you actually love to do it. The ONE little known factor that will make them rich. (That secret happens to be writing a self help book and telling everyone else what to do as you rake it in.)

And of course the cherry on the cake-- the ONE true church that will make you superior to all others and get you past Joseph's velvet rope.



Problem is what makes something rich is not ONE but is a conglomeration that constantly sheds and adds-- thereby staving off the boredom of the same old same old. More is more. Our ability to feel is what gives meaning, not any one book, or one saying, or one action. Life can be a banquet or a fad diet.

So being satisfied with the ONE is risky as it may be rather lazy and unimaginative and leave one in a rut. The grand exception to all of this is the ONE true German Chocolate Cake. Not like Mormonism at all.

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Posted by: mel ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 10:58PM

Done & Done Wrote:
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> ...(That secret happens to be writing a self help book and telling everyone else what to do as you rake it in.)

Yes! And they do, I read somewhere that self-help books and seminars make billions of dollars of profits every year.

And yes, the one true church, I believe the count of religions worldwide is 10,000 different ones right now? All of them think they’re the true one, I’m sure.

>The grand exception to all of this is the ONE true German Chocolate Cake.

Now there’s some truth I can get into!!! :)

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Posted by: CateS ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 10:16PM

I don’t agree. Maybe it’s just your impression that those involved in one if those topics can’t avoid talking about them but I don’t find that to be the case.

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 01:43PM

So true.

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Posted by: mel ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 10:49PM

helamonster Wrote:
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> ...can't wait to throw them into any conversation, no matter how unrelated.

Yes. I’ve noticed that, is it that these topics are so important that they simply MUST share, or they need to validate their self-identity?

Interesting thought, OP.

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Posted by: olderelder ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 11:44PM

mel Wrote:
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> helamonster Wrote:
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> ...or they need to validate their self-identity?


However, there are those who really just want others to be healthier, richer, whatever. They're the hardest ones to deal with.

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Posted by: mel ( )
Date: April 23, 2019 11:48PM

older elder wrote,
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> However, there are those who really just want
> others to be healthier, richer, whatever. They're
> the hardest ones to deal with.

Yes I had forgotten that—-the blazing urge to help everyone share in the great “something” they have found. Fervor to help others...ugh...afraid you’re right, older E!!!

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 01:48PM

I think helping others is the greatest point... In the life of people who love people.

These people-
It takes one to know one.

Love y'all
M@t

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Posted by: exminion ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 12:48AM

There must be some truth in this, Helamonster.

I was just watching a sitcom, and a group of people at a party were talking, and someone asked, "Where's Nick? He was so much fun to talk to. Why isn't he here?"

Someone else answered, "Oh, he went Paleo."

Everyone knowingly rolled their eyes.

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Posted by: mel ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 12:25PM

exminion Wrote:
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> Someone else answered, "Oh, he went Paleo."

Yes, it’s grist for the sitcom but also true, when your friends radically deviate from your own eating choices it becomes difficult to get together with them.

It would be nice if most all socializing didn’t require or center around food!!!

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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 04:49AM

Smith created a sect using a number of health fads so your comment may be more relevant than you thought.

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 01:51PM

Yeah
Totally
Matt
Smiles

M@t
P.S. - he was certainly faddish

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Posted by: moremany ( )
Date: April 24, 2019 01:42PM

helamonster Wrote:
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> Insofar as anyone involved with any of those things simply can't wait to throw them into any conversation, no matter how unrelated.

"Vegans"?

Involved? Evolved?

Any of what things?
How related is LDS
To it's 'constituents'?

One quick thing about veganism:
One can do what they want
It isn't cannibalism
That's mormonism
It chews you up
Then spits you out
It actually swallows
Without any feasting

It doesn't care about you
But DEMANDS you follow it
And pick up its SHIfT!

Veganism is about individual
WHOLE (some ness)

Mormonslism, about Profits!
Profile. Pasttimes. Pat-re-money.
Phony falsehoods and philandering.
Did I say phalsehoods and preSTooges?
Free-form fakeness.

Vegans are accepting
Mormonisn not!

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Date: April 28, 2019 12:30PM


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