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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 12:31PM

"Gabe Ryan Gilbert, 19, has been charged with contacting juvenile girls on social media and threatening to photo-edit nude images of them if they would not send him real nude photos. Gilbert is charged in 3rd District Court with five counts of aggravated sexual extortion of a child, a first-degree felony, and four counts of sexual exploitation of a minor, a second-degree felony....

Agents went to Gilbert's home in March only to find out that he was serving a mission for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in Mexico, and had left about two months after the alleged extortion attempt involving the 15-year-old, according to charging documents."

https://www.ksl.com/article/46585870/utahn-accused-in-sextortion-of-over-50-teens-charges-say

Gilbert was sent home by his MP. There is a warrant out for his arrest.

Reading this, I don't know how parents do it. You have to warn your teenagers about so many potential threats nowadays. Protecting kids has gotten a whole lot tougher in the internet age.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 12:37PM


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Posted by: stillanon ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 12:39PM

Also discussed in memikeyounot's thread;

https://www.exmormon.org/phorum/read.php?2,2238637

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 03:01PM

Thanks -- I didn't see that.

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Posted by: olderelder ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 01:01PM

And thus we see the power of discernment is BS. Gabe was deemed worthy to serve.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 01:09PM

Ugh. I just tasted bile.

I was expected something like desecration of another religion's icons.

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Posted by: shylock ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 01:53PM

Serving the Lawd while serving your perverted self interest... how did he make it past the masturbation test?

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 02:06PM

It's easy to slip through the interview if you're lubed up... Ya just gotta be slick.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 02:08PM

Weren't you just warned against loud laughter, light-mindedness, and speaking ill of the Lord's anointed?

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 03:07PM

I would like to think that someone cared enough!

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 03:17PM

He'll be on a sex offenders list for rhe rest of his life. And that will be after however long they put him behind bars.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 03:20PM

Not long probably if he even sees time in a correctional facility instead of probably in another kind of facility.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 02, 2019 03:25PM

Elder Berry Wrote:
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> Not long probably if he even sees time in a
> correctional facility instead of probably in
> another kind of facility.

This is sadly true. He may also have to be assessed psychologically.

The sick joke is that if he had done this to someone who was several years older he would be treated even more leniently.

But this will be following him around for the rest of his life.

I'm glad I grew up in a different age. The worst we had to contend with were very bulky Polaroid cameras and that was bad enough.

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Posted by: Anon, not wanting a fight. ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:16AM

Jordan, your comment gave you away. You are "Badass Adam", returning to RFM after being banned.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:22AM

He’s not Adam. Their styles and preoccupations are different.

Other traits, however, are certainly similar.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:46AM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> He’s not Adam. Their styles and preoccupations
> are different.
>
> Other traits, however, are certainly similar.

Can you tell me exactly what is wrong with the comments on this thread that I made? Are you one of these people who thinks his type is misunderstood and should be given a second chance for wrecking girls' lives?

"Badass" is a revolting phrase, that sounds as if someone has inadequate personal hygiene.

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Posted by: scmd1 ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 07:51AM

I was not one of Adam's more ardent fans, nor do I believe you are his more recent incarnation. Regardless, his moniker was the very least of his contemptuousness to most of us. It's your prerogative to remain in the nineteenth century with regard to language, but while I'm hesitant to speak for others here, I will venture a guess that where most of us here are concerned, the term "badass" has nothing whatsoever to do with hygiene.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 09:51AM

"Badass" sounds like a "bad ass", and I don't think the reference is to a donkey-like creature. It's pretty revolting when you break it down.

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Posted by: scmd1 ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:48PM

You're entitled to your feelings, just as you are entitled to remain linguiatically in the dark ages.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:49PM

That was a bad ass comment.

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Posted by: scmd1 ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:06PM

Thanks, EB. I'm not offended by any real or imagined scatological associations with the term.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 09:29AM

He spells better than Adam...

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 09:53AM

Soft Machine Wrote:
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> He spells better than Adam...

No idea who this guy was. But do I really need to be compared to him because I think this guy was wrong.

Is the disgust here because I said he would go to prison and have this hanging around his neck for the rest of his life? What, pray, is wrong with that?

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Posted by: sbg ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 10:06AM

He should go to prison, and it should follow him. He violated the law and people who do that go to prison.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 10:10AM

sbg Wrote:
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> He should go to prison, and it should follow him.
> He violated the law and people who do that go to
> prison.

I agree, I never said otherwise. He's destroyed his own life by attempting to destroy others.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 10:58AM

In my opinion, it's not what you say that is annoying, it's how you say it. And while there is little to zero "content" or precision in my opinion, it doesn't alter the result.

I don't think there's any 'science' that is useful in describing the hows & whys of the 'disturbance-in-the-force' that an already established group feels when someone like you comes along.

But I suspect that this is not the first time you've encountered this phenomenon.

Humans, huh?! What the hell was ghawd thinking?

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 01:50PM

As I've repeatedly said before, I don't wish to be MEALY MOUTHED. I don't dance around subjects like some effete Britisher, I tackle them head on. If I wrote the way you wished me to there would be ambiguity and wooliness in every post I made.

It is bizarre that anyone would criticize what I was saying there unless they were defending the boy.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:00PM

The point is that Adam was a self-centered, aggressive moron. He offended people right and left and, after extreme tolerance from admin, was ultimately banned. People are comparing you to him, in some ways rightly but in some ways incorrectly.

It would, however, be a mistake on your part to assume, as you evidently do, that offensiveness is the same thing as substance. Adam left with no meaningful legacy. He thought he was profound but he was actually just annoying.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:08PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> It would, however, be a mistake on your part to
> assume, as you evidently do, that offensiveness is
> the same thing as substance.

It gets oodles of responses and is total click bait.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:11PM

And hence serves the emotional needs of the emotionally needy.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/03/2019 02:51PM by Lot's Wife.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 03:35PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> It would, however, be a mistake on your part to
> assume, as you evidently do, that offensiveness is
> the same thing as substance

You take offense at anything which is not your viewpoint.

As the saying goes, if you want to make an omelet you gotta crack eggs. With the aggressive social engineering going on right now to further political agendas, together with its linguistic tricks and traps, it is only right that some of us form a resistance to it. Left unchecked it will liberate no one and not create equality and diversity, but creates a fighting mass of people which will be led towards complete homogeneity of politics and culture.

I doubt your friend the Gluteus Maximus Malus would even think in this terms.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 03:40PM

You asked why people were comparing you to Badass Adam. I explained. You took offense and then replied precisely as Adam would have.

Perhaps you didn't really want to understand what people were expressing?

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 03:56PM

The only thing I took offense at is the notion that I would call myself a "badass" - apart from the fact that the word is scatological, it sounds like a thirteen year old.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:40PM

Jordan Wrote:
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> the fact that the word is scatological

It isn't. I could post links but don't think it would matter. Grasping at straws here or you don't understand its common usage.

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Posted by: Tevai ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:59PM

Jordan Wrote:
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> The only thing I took offense at is the notion
> that I would call myself a "badass" - apart from
> the fact that the word is scatological, it sounds
> like a thirteen year old.

I may be misremembering, but it is my recollection that his name was self-selected.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 03:55PM

* these

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 03:57PM

You and HWint need to learn to use the "edit" button.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 04:21PM

There is no edit button if you don't sign up. As for Hwint, he can do what the hell he likes, cos he ain't me, and any word print analysis would prove that.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 04:40PM

Speaking of which, where is the analysis of EOD and me that you promised so many times? You know, the one you threatened would confirm our singular identity?

Or was that just a pufferfish making himself look bigger than he really is?

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:20PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> Speaking of which, where is the analysis of EOD
> and me that you promised so many times? You know,
> the one you threatened would confirm our singular
> identity?
>
> Or was that just a pufferfish making himself look
> bigger than he really is?

I've had other fish to fry and fugu hasn't been one of them.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:23PM

So there was no substance to your threats. That's not very surprising.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:30PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> So there was no substance to your threats. That's
> not very surprising.

I work hard and I work slow. It will happen in the end. If it doesn't go the way you'd like you'll need a cover story.

You're welcome to do it to me and Hwint soon. Statistical measurement performs better than amateur opinion.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:34PM

> I work hard and I work slow. It will happen in the
> end. If it doesn't go the way you'd like you'll
> need a cover story.

You are utterly full of shit.

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Posted by: Jordan ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:33AM

Anon, not wanting a fight. Wrote:
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> Jordan, your comment gave you away. You are
> "Badass Adam", returning to RFM after being
> banned.

"Not wanting a fight" - don't worry, you're not getting one.

a) What is actually wrong with what I said there? Is it wrong to say this will follow him around for the rest of his life? If so, how?!

b) I've no idea who the heck Badass Adam is. I don't use the term like "badass", it's the language of the gutter.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:01PM

> I
> don't use the term like "badass", it's the
> language of the gutter.

See?

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Posted by: Levi ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 12:44PM

I'm SOOOOOO glad to hear that that BadAssAdam nut was banned. his presence kept me away for a long time. I never understood why other posters would encourage him.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 04:38PM

He was very needy, so I kept trying to work with him for a very long time. But almost without fail, he would turn on virtually every board member who tried to help him. My feeling is, I'm not here to be treated abusively. None of us are. It got to a point where I refused to respond to him anymore. There are only so many personal problems that we can address on the board. He needed to be in the hands of a professional counselor (which thankfully, he was.)

It is true that he had a very distinctive writing style. I think I would recognize it if it were to appear on the board again.

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Posted by: Aquarius123 ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 05:07PM

Levi Wrote:
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> I'm SOOOOOO glad to hear that that BadAssAdam nut
> was banned. his presence kept me away for a long
> time. I never understood why other posters would
> encourage him.

I feel the same way, Levi. He seemed to think he was so cool to dis everybody here. It takes no special talent to be a jerk. The name calling(like mealy mouth) reminds me a lot of him. There are people who get kicked out of other sites quickly or ignored, so they end up here where that type of thing is tolerated.

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Posted by: macaRomney ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 09:01AM

The kid was only 17 so it's fine (According to our silly laws). He can abuse anyone or unwrap all the cupcakes he wants. Now if he was 18 it's a whole different story. I'm surprised however that it made the news or that his name was released to the public. That's breaking the law against minors. And ksl could face legal consequences?

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 11:03AM

> That's breaking the law against
> minors. And ksl could face legal
> consequences?

Consider the possibility that some KSL employee in a supervisory position had a question on just that issue... What would that person have done? Consult with an authority on the matter? So that if there were some 'blow back', he could say, "Well, I checked with legal counsel and he said it was okay!"

And the fact that we're not hearing about any 'blow back' on the issue you've raised could very well mean that common sense was followed.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 12:05PM

You have no clue what you are saying. He was not free to do what he did at 17 or 18. I wish you had paid attention in school rather than just shutting your Algebra II book and daydreaming of killing Injuns on the plains.

Surprised his name was released? Maybe you don't know the law after all.

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Posted by: subeamnotlogedin ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 11:04AM

The church should do background checks on everyone before sending them out on missions.

The church is aware at 29:10
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hWFJkm6BIb8

Over and over it is shown that there is no power of discernment.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 11:06AM

They do the best possible background in the world, via Holy McGhost and the power, nay, The Majesty!, of Discernment!

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Posted by: Phazer ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 11:17AM

Teach your kids right. Also, block domains at the router.

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Posted by: Elyse ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 11:28AM

He is 19, a kid himself and only 4 years older.
Was he just kidding or did he mean it?

Anyway, much too young to be a serious "missionary".

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Posted by: Dorothy ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:12PM

Really? The just kidding defense?

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 02:13PM

He threatened to send rapists and sex traffickers to their homes.
Quite the "kidding"?

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Posted by: Ted ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 01:11PM

Well I think there is some budding mental illness there. One does not exercise such poor anti-social insight and judgement without some underlying disorder (I would think). Anti-social personality disorder at least. Shame, he's a good looking kid, but obviously derailed.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 03:45PM

Budding mental illness? At 50 victims, I would say it is in full flower. Mental illness or not, he needs to be kept from polite society and the internet. I'm pretty confident that is exactly what will happen.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: July 03, 2019 04:39PM

I'm hoping for 5 years in prison with no internet access. Is that too optimistic?

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