She has had so much going on in her life that she needed to step away from being online for awhile. I have corresponded with her. I miss her thoughtful and insightful posts. She is a treasure here.
Yeah, you probably went to some snooty, refined, high-brow kind of place and met nothing but effete White People who dipped snuff and spoke in parables!
Or you went to San Diego and hung out with a Mexican and women who could rip my head from off my shoulders!!!
I just can't picture anything in between for you...