Posted by:
se7enthdagger
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Date: February 09, 2020 10:16PM
Hello RfM, I havent been here in a few years and wanted to catch up...
I think the last time i posted on this board was about March/April 2017, got a lot of great advise about how to handle my brothers departure for his mission, how to keep the conversation going between us and how to avoid alienating him. My brother is my best friend, we talk every day and Im happy to say that not much has changed since his return last May. Sure the first few weeks I was nice enough to try and not swear, or tell dirty jokes around him, but then the conditioning broke and hes back to his old self swearing like a sailor just like me.
My main concern for him though is hes now 24, has never worked a day in his life (except for his mission, if you can call that work), and that definitely doesnt look good on a resume.
Normally I wouldnt be too concerned however my father sadly lost his job 3 months ago and has a $750,000+ (AUD) mortgage hanging around his neck all because in his infinite wisdom he fasted and prayed about this new job and uprooted with my mum and 2 brothers to the other side of the country. Now if something doesnt change soon, he'll have to sell or file for bankruptcy...
So much for the family being blessed from my brother serving a mission haha
So a question for all of you, have you ever had a TBM family member be really bad at getting a job? I dont know if hes being lazy / scared or what but having at least SOME money coming in to feed them would help. Mum doesnt work either (hasnt since she had kids)
And lastly, this whole situation to me just reaffirms that they church is full of shit, theres no welfare system my father can go to for aid, hes paid millions in tithing over his lifetime and the best the church can do is send some relief society over with a casserole?? $100bn in assets and finances but nothing can be done for my dad...
i know its a wicked thought, but I hope this experience breaks his shelf...
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 02/09/2020 10:18PM by se7enthdagger.