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CA girl
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Date: July 01, 2011 01:16AM
I got dragged to Sacrament meeting last Sunday and the youth speaker talked about the importance of setting a good example. It really rubbed me the wrong way. Because it's so self-important.
I tend to think people who are actually important should try to set a good example. People like Barak Obama, Queen Elizabeth, Mother Theresa,people who are media superstars in sports and entertainment or even just parents with their children. In those venues, the person in question has a great influence for good if they choose to use it. But Mormons tend to think the whole world is looking to them to set the standard for morality and goodness.
If only they knew.
Thinking it's up to me to an example, intentionally, for random neighbors and co-workers seems like I've positioned myself above them and demand to be looked up to. Like I've jumped into the spotlight and better live up to all the people looking up to me.
Except no one is looking up to Mormons. They may like or respect them but they don't usually look to them for spiritual light. If they like them, it's the way you like a friend or an equal. Not the way you look at an adored person on a pedestal. And I really wonder how much Mormons care about setting an example because they rarely take time to analyze, or even give a second thought to, the way their "example" is coming across. They don't care really how others perceive them because they never stop to ask HOW they are being perceived. They simply want the ego-bloating feeling of being looked up to and thinking they set the bar high for all around them. They like the strokes. And it's patronizing as hell.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/01/2011 01:27AM by CA girl.