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introvertedme
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Date: July 04, 2011 02:03PM
It will take a bit of bravery to say this, but I have seen what nolongerin has too. I have been lurking for almost 3 months and worked up the courage to post a few times, which went well - I got replies and was enjoying the interaction. But I said in one post that I can't condone some choices in life some/many RfM people are making, but that we can agree to disagree and there's no problem with that. Since then I've had no interactions at all and I see that some posts get mean-spirited, use really vulgar language, refer to really inappropriate things, and so forth. Just because we're leaving Mormonism (and couldn't be happier about it!) doesn't mean, for many of us, that we're turning into different people. I respect those on here who are gay and live that lifestyle, but I never will. Same goes for much drinking, etc. I actually tried coffee (and then aired out my house frantically in case the bishop stopped by!) and am taking off the g's when I can (bit of a story - I can't "out" myself just yet, but it will be soon), and I'm doing a TON of reading and research about the whole issue so I'm educated and informed. But, I'm still fundamentally "me" and I still love and appreciate solid support, clean language, uplifting threads, and a lack of descent into discussions about sex with dogs or wishing the G.A.'s would drop dead.
I don't know - maybe it's just me. I LOVE these boards and have found, to my great surprise, that I NEED these boards. Between them and all the books and other materials I've collected, read, and am reading I have learned more than I ever imagined. It has been a stunning journey, and one I waited WAY too long to take, but I'm so glad for it now - I just can't tell you!! So, I will continue to try to support others on here, provide uplifting comments, solid friendship (as much as one can on an online board, I guess!), and watch for those who are in need at a particular time. I too have found specific people whose posts I especially love and appreciate - I'd love to become that kind of person for others. I'm extremely introverted (obviously - see my name), but I interact well online. These boards have been a lifeline for me, truly. I feel terrible that Somelady didn't have a good experience and I so wish she would come back! We are here for her - please let her know that!