Have not experienced a problem-solving discussion for years in my family

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Posted by: Cauda ( )
Date: March 23, 2021 03:01PM

Digged into Batesons communications theory today about the double bind. Have a Pdf-document on the computer with some examples.

As a concrete-thinker I must say that I suffer a lot from this kind of communication. It has been going on for years. Many problems are up in their, no beginnings or real ends in sight.

It is a repeated experience with conflicting injunctions and the rule is to never comment on it.

If you comment on it you will experience a disqualification that gaslights you. "Never happened", "You misunderstood me".

I am a late learner and learned to not comment on it a couple of years ago. After that we together went into a new "dimension" of passive-aggressivness.

I want to know what this nonsense is all about? Can someone tell me please? :)

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