Posted by:
jazbo
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Date: March 08, 2022 11:25AM
There have been several posters recently, who have lost loved ones. My sincere condolences go out to all of you.
It brought back memories of when our 19 yr. old son died after a 2 yr. battle with lymphoblastic lymphoma. The most repeated words of "comfort" were:
- He's in a better place,
- God needed him on the other side.
And this one bothered me the most - The good die young. So, what does this mean to all of us who were over 19? That we were bad?
But the most heartless words were:
- He died because you lacked faith, and
- Just get over it, move on.
On another post, Nightingale wrote that she was thanked for listening. That was what I wanted - a listening ear, a hug, or just silence.
There were other expressions of sympathy: one sister brought by a casserole made with rancid potatoe chips on top. Not even our dog was tempted to try it. Another sister had dropped off a salad & called to see when she could pick up her salad bowl. What salad? We did not have it. Come to find out, she had delivered it to the wrong address.
It was a very difficult time, and the beginning of the end of the mormon church for me,