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atheist&happy:-)
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Date: July 12, 2011 05:24AM
I identified with both of my parents as far as intellect, hobbies, and interests, but my dad was a pedophile - the worst part of my ancestry. However, I would not trade him for JS or BY any day - they were far worse. I do understand the disconnect. After my mother died, we mostly raised ourselves. My senior year, except for breakfast, we had to feed ourselves, because my dad decided to eat out, and not buy food. I grieved not really having a father after my mother died, before his death, because he did not act like a parent after that. Maybe you have already done most of your grieving.
There are people on the board who know a lot more about genetics. It has been a while since I watched these so I do not know if it would answer any questions.
http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/I am a genealogist, and one thing I like about getting to know my ancestors is I know who I am like, and can identify with them. In general, I know which side of the family my talents, and traits came from. I know who had similar interests, etc. My directness came from my grandmother, who probably had more tact. The stories of her were legendary, and hilarious. Football is OK, but I did not inherit the great love of it from my father's side - lots of the family did. I did inherit my love of music from them. I look most like my dad's eldest sister, her mother - my paternal grandmother, and an unidentified ancestor from my mother's side. Today I wrote some "poetry". I don't write poetry, but my grandmother, great grandmother, and 2nd great grandfather did as well as many of their siblings. My interest in government, and politics comes from my mother's side.
You can bypass your parents' behavior, and focus on shared traits of your ancestors. If your family has pioneer ancestry I am sure you have independent thinking dissenters in your family tree.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 07/12/2011 05:27AM by atheist&happy:-).