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Date: July 14, 2011 11:48AM
My ex-colleague got rid of his porn stash about four years ago and stopped talking to me soon after I believe he was guilt-tripped into getting rid of sources of sin. He hasn't thrown out his porn stash since and he has since resumed talking to me. (I will ask him today why he got rid of his porn stash - he tells me everything.)
The odd part to me is that I'm one of the only nice people to him. Everyone else uses him and ignores him. He's constantly walked over like a doormat and is never promoted, yet I'M ignored or a bad influence? I've never really challenged his belief system either, so he can't say I'm anti-mormon church or anything like that. I really do think he thinks I'm a man-slut since he knows I have had girlfriends. He married the first woman who was interested in him (pathetic) at the "late age" of 25.
To me, this implies that he's told his bishop or whoever it is about his porn stash and maybe sexual preference (homosexual). If he can tell a guy at church that he has gay attractions, why doesn't he just come out then?
Do you know how awkward it was seeing him avoiding me at the office? I was thinking I had spinach on my teeth or smelled like BO. Funny part to me was that even though I knew he was avoiding me, I got the feeling that he wanted to talk to me as well. When I had to hand over records for him to put into the accounting statements, all I ever got from him was "thanks" and "good going."
I've been lurking on this site for a while. And I constantly read women who tell their bishop about their sexual activities. That's just way too much information to give out from this NeverMo. I'm constantly amazed that such information is passed so freely, especially to someone of the opposite sex. AND, I've been reading a lot lately about bishops who spill the beans on members' sins in front of the congregation. To me, this is an extra incentive to keep private matters, um, private!
Why can't people just lie?
Edited 4 time(s). Last edit at 07/14/2011 12:01PM by newcomer.