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Posted by: messygoop ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 12:17AM

Sister Goop was too sick to receive a liver transplant.

I wish she could have overcome liver disease, but I am glad that she is no longer suffering. She was an amazing person and it's lousy that we can't spend more time together. 26 years was a good run.

It's been a long month of doctors, hospitals and a lot of driving.

I won't bother anyone to believe as I do but being a spiritual person has helped me with dealing with pain and grief. I am fortunate to have family and friends helping out with support.


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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 12:19AM

I'm sorry for your loss, MG. You and your family must be in a very difficult place right now and I'm glad you have sources of solace of any sort.


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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 12:34AM

I'm so sorry to hear this, messy. I knew from your previous posts that things were not good for her. I'm so glad she is not suffering and that she had you in her life.

Know you have cyber folks here, as anonymous as we are, who care and wish you all the comfort you can get through this difficult time.

Please take care of yourself.

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Posted by: Brother Of Jerry ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 12:55AM

I know what you meant, but loss and transition are about the two most on topic subjects there are here, and two of the most difficult to deal with.

Thanks for letting us know. Sorry for your loss, and best wishes as you adjust. Hugs.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 01:01AM

I hope you know many of us here chose to care about you, even though there’s precious little we can do, other than to wish bad things didn’t happen.

But they do . . .

One step at a time, one foot in front of the other…

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Posted by: Tevai ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 01:15AM

I am so very sorry for your loss.

I wish I had the words to adequately express how I am really feeling right now, but I don't.

I am just so sorry.

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Posted by: Susan I/S ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 01:58AM

What a hard thing. Thank you for including us. Please take care of yourself and let others do what they can. I will be thinking of you {hugz}

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 04:03AM

Sorry for your loss. I know what spending hours in the hospital and dealing with a sick loved one is like. It relieving to know the suffering is over but the loss is hard. Life is too short. I always felt our souls go onto something else. I won’t pretend to know what exactly but it’s a big universe and we are part of it.

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Posted by: shoulderwheelie ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 04:11AM

Oh messy. I’m sad for your loss. I light candles in cathedrals—I will light one for you and your wife.

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Posted by: knotheadusc ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 06:59AM

I'm so sorry... I wish you much peace and comfort. I always enjoy your posts. I have a feeling we're about the same age, and that makes you very relatable.

I wish I could say something to take away the pain of your tremendous loss.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 07:43AM

All your friends here including myself are hurting for you and your memories of both good times & challenges met during your lives together, messy...

No one is certain about any possible or perhaps hoped for afterlife, so cherish your memories meanwhile ✨️

Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/28/2023 07:44AM by GNPE.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 08:36AM

Messy, I am so sorry for your loss. Your wife was lucky to have you as a devoted and loving partner.

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Posted by: CrispingPin ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 10:37AM

My heart hurts from reading this. I wish my pain could reduce yours.

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Posted by: gemini ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 10:38AM

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know you have many here who are thinking of you and sending comforting thoughts your way.

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Posted by: valkyriequeen ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 11:24AM

Messy, I'm so sorry to hear of your wife's passing.

Please know that you have many friends here who are thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort.

I always enjoy your posts.

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Posted by: cl2notloggedin ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 11:45AM

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Posted by: Shinehah ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 12:10PM


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Posted by: Greyfort ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 03:24PM

Oh, Messy, I'm so sorry. I've never had a spouse, but I've watched what my Mom has gone through since we lost my Dad. *BIG HUG* to you.

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Posted by: sunbeep ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 03:39PM

I'm sorry to hear this, losing a loved one is hard. Thank you for sharing. Take care of yourself messygoop.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 05:05PM

So sorry, Messy. Condolences.

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Posted by: SCMD not logged in ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 05:25PM

I'm so sorry, MG.

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Posted by: shortbobgirl ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 07:54PM

I’m so sorry Messy.

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Posted by: heartbroken ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 08:18PM

I'm so sorry to hear of your wife's passing. I don't think there are any words that will make your loss less painful.

I enjoy reading your posts. You seem like a very sensitive person and I'm sure your wife benefited from your kindness, sensitivity and humor. I guess the best you can do is to hold on to the good memories of your wife.

I hope you can find comfort during this difficult time.

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Posted by: messygoop ( )
Date: January 28, 2023 11:58PM

This board is awesome!

I am grateful for the kindness of the members here at RfM.


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Posted by: slskipper ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 01:19AM

So sorry.

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Posted by: Eric K ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 06:55AM

I am so sorry Messy. Thinking of you at this time. We always appreciate your heartfelt posts here.

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Posted by: Gordon B. Stinky ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 02:37PM

I'm so sorry to hear that you lost your wife! I lost mine a few years ago, so I can definitely empathize. Be thankful for the 26 years you had together! Your job now is to keep her memory alive. My condolences to you and your loved ones.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 03:51PM

My condolences too, MG, from Canada with love.

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Posted by: Left The Morg ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 05:17PM

Thinking of you, and I'm so sorry you have lost her. We all care about you, so I hope that will bring some solace.

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Posted by: Elder Berry ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 05:44PM

You are in my thoughts. Hope the end was as good as it could have been.

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Posted by: Lethbridge Reprobate ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 09:16PM

You have my most heartfelt condolences sir. I know how it feels.

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Posted by: Hervey Willets ( )
Date: January 29, 2023 11:43PM

My condolences also.

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Posted by: wowbagger ( )
Date: January 30, 2023 03:35AM

Profound condolences Brother Goop

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Posted by: Roy G Biv ( )
Date: January 30, 2023 11:34AM

Sad news to hear. Take care of yourself.

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Posted by: ookami ( )
Date: January 30, 2023 01:01PM

I'm sorry, messygoop.

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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: January 30, 2023 01:42PM

So Sorry, messygoop. Glad you have family, friends and your spirituality to get through this.

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Posted by: sd ( )
Date: January 30, 2023 02:20PM

she has earned your grief.

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Posted by: Arkay ( )
Date: January 31, 2023 03:58PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

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Posted by: adoylelb ( )
Date: February 01, 2023 10:34PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost a friend just before the holidays because she wasn't able to get a liver transplant.

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Posted by: anonynon ( )
Date: February 02, 2023 11:26AM

I'm sorry for your loss <3

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Posted by: Villager ( )
Date: February 02, 2023 12:17PM

I am so sorry.

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Posted by: Bite Me ( )
Date: February 02, 2023 06:33PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, MG.

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Posted by: I ( )
Date: February 03, 2023 03:29AM

Precious, timeless moments on earth with companions, lovers and friends can be so magical, meaningful and wild, yet so short, sometimes with an abrupt ending, or transition.

Hugs from afar

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