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Posted by: jay ( )
Date: April 14, 2023 05:29PM


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Posted by: Done & Done ( )
Date: April 14, 2023 05:33PM

You talking about the people who have Courts of Love?

Mormons and cancel culture go way back. Great friends they are.

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Posted by: Gordon B. Stinky ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 06:15PM

Yeah! What is shunning if not cancellation?

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Posted by: blackcoatsdaughter ( )
Date: April 14, 2023 05:58PM

Everyone is against cancel culture until it works for them.

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Posted by: anybody ( )
Date: April 14, 2023 06:06PM

Touché.

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 10:10PM

They ARE cancel culture! They take coffee away from Italians, French, and Dutch. They take tea away from the English, Scots, Welsh, and Irish. Et cetera. In the end, they may either take away a culture, or appropriating a culture for their own ends.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 10:18PM

cludgie Wrote:
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> They take tea
> away from the English, Scots, Welsh, and Irish.

Yeah. That takes some doing.

Excruciating sacrifice.

Pretty much the first thing I did after I left that (damn) church was to make myself a cup of Yorkshire Gold tea. In a big huge mug. And I had two cups. Bliss.

I should have known it wasn't the church for me the instant the mishies said no more tea. Say what? Yow. A sacrifice too far.

So yes. I left so I could "sin". Or so it comforts them to think.

If the biggest sin a person ever commits is enjoying all of decent, useful and beautiful creation (by God or Humankind) I can live with that.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 10:26PM

"Damn?" "Bloody?"

"Fuck?"

What on earth is happening?

"When summer and Nightingale start exhibiting linguistic excesses, the Apocalypse is nigh."

--Jesus, prophet pro temp, address unknown

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 10:43PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> "Damn?" "Bloody?"

> "When summer and Nightingale start exhibiting
> linguistic excesses, the Apocalypse is nigh."

Yes, sign of the times. Absolutely.

I admit to the first two, not the third. That is held back until we get to the point of extremis.

But the first two are good British words, so I understand. So that's all right then. :P

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 10:54PM

I am generally in extremis, so come over any time.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 10:59PM

I'll be there!

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 11:04PM

I’ll put the tea on. ;-)

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 11:09PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> I’ll put the tea on. ;-)

We'll have a party. A tea party. Like QEII & Paddington Bear.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 11:25PM

"Paddy Bear!" That's how my daughter pronounced it when I brought her the plush toy from Harrods long ago.

It's a date!

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 15, 2023 11:32PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> "Paddy Bear!" That's how my daughter pronounced it
> when I brought her the plush toy from Harrods long
> ago.

Very cute.

> It's a date!

Absolutely!

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: April 25, 2023 09:49PM

Wrong! You "put the kettle on."

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 26, 2023 12:28AM

Curse you, cludgie, for being right!

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Posted by: ookami ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 02:41PM

Those are good British words.

Another British term I like is "char" as a term for tea. Tea in India is called "chai" (note: "chai tea" is redundant) and the Japanese word ちゃ (Pronounced "chya" with a soft "y") comes from the Chinese word. Turns out "char" is closer to what the drink and leaves are called than tea. There's a whole argument over whether tea drinking originated in India or China that I don't want to get into.

I sometimes wonder whether I should have tried to study nutritional anthropology. The history of food and drink is quite fascinating!

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Posted by: kentish ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 04:27PM

Char comes from the regional Chinese for tea whuich is cha. It's a British thing, adding an r where they are not not, and not rolling them when they are.

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Posted by: ookami ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 04:45PM

I have trouble with tonal languages, hence why I don't know Mandarin that well or Cantonese at all. But I do like that char is closer to what it's called by the folks who grow and export it.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 05:26PM

How about a charwoman?

A British woman who cleans house (maid) and drinks a lot of char? :P

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 06:08PM

  
  

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Posted by: ookami ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 06:13PM

Also good.

Note: I worked as a cleaner for apartments before and I work as a janitor now, so I'd prefer being compared to a charlady over a charwoman. I think charlady sounds more professional and I have my pride.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 04/16/2023 06:19PM by ookami.

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Posted by: elderolddog ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 06:21PM

Charder?

If you did your work quietly, you might be called clam charter... or not.

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Posted by: Nightingale ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 06:42PM

ookami Wrote:
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> Note: I worked as a cleaner for apartments before
> and I work as a janitor now, so I'd prefer being
> compared to a charlady over a charwoman. I think
> charlady sounds more professional and I have my
> pride.

I was in the middle of writing charlady but then thought it was perhaps a mite too upscale, in case people got mixed up between a "maid" (which I put in brackets to make the meaning clear to all) and a Lady, who in the UK is a cut above, according to their social hierarchy.

So it's kind of mixing opposites if char is a maid and Lady is a, well, Lady.

But no offence intended (LOL).

Cleaning is an essential and thoroughly respectable occupation. I would give pretty much anything to have a cleaner here with me today. The sun's just come out after a massive rainstorm and I can see thick dust all over the damn place. (The 'damn' is for Lot's Wife). :P

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Posted by: ookami ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 07:25PM

I know it's mixing opposites, that's one of the reasons I like charlady.

Cleaning isn't the most glamorous field to work in, but someone's got to do it. And I try to do a good job even though I'm not always fond of it. So I don't take offense.

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Posted by: kentish ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 10:55AM

A maid was a woman who lived in to take care of the home of the wealthy. A charlady worked by the hour for specific cleaning tasks. Likely the term evolved from chore lady.

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Posted by: ookami ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 12:54PM

Another reason I like charlady; it's closer to my job description. Got to respect other professionals in the field.

Biggest difference between cleaning Mormon buildings and my job is that I get paid. Hey, I had to post something to make it on topic.

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 01:43PM


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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 06:29PM

Lot's Wife Wrote:
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> "Damn?" "Bloody?"
>
> "Fuck?"
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> What on earth is happening?
>
> "When summer and Nightingale start exhibiting
> linguistic excesses, the Apocalypse is nigh."
>
> --Jesus, prophet pro temp, address unknown


:)

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: April 25, 2023 09:51PM

Wake me up when we're talking bits, like todger.

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Posted by: slskipper ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 12:36AM

Ask the September Six. Then get back to me.

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Posted by: Staff Member ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 01:22AM

They've cancelled the word Mormon in most contexts. Now every time someone calls them Mormon, they can deny it in passive-aggressive style... even though they ran the "I'm a Mormon" campaign less than ten years ago.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 02:07AM

Cancel culture always existed. The only thing that changes is who’s targeted.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 16, 2023 02:13AM

Nonsense.

Censorship is not constant; it ebbs and flows. Goebbels was not Wilhelm II. Napoleon's press bureau was not the same as Macron's. Stasi was not today's Germany. Mao's Cultural Revolution was not the same as the same as Deng Xiaoping's 1980s. Pol Pot was not Norodom Sihanouk.

You make sweeping generalizations that serve not as thought but as excuses not to think. Rubicon, you have enough intelligence and experience to do better.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 01:18PM

You just confirmed what I stated. Cancel culture is always there in one form or another. It’s who’s targeted that changes.

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Posted by: Rubicon ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 01:22PM

There is also more to cancel culture than just censorship. It’s not just dictorial governments that practice it. All of us have been a victim of cancel culture simply because one group or person did not like us for whatever reason.

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Posted by: Lot's Wife ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 03:34PM

Okay. So "cancel culture" is, in your words, when "one group or person did not like us for whatever reason."

Little Sally in third grade refuses to hold your hand and you've been "canceled?" Someone takes offense at your BLM hat and you've been "canceled?" Someone flips you off on the highway and you've been "canceled?" I disagree with one of your sweeping generalizations and you have been "canceled?"

You've just robbed the term of any meaning and empowered snowflakes anywhere to denounce people who disagree with them.

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Posted by: schrodingerscat ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 11:57AM

Mormons to me:

”It’s either your doubts or your family. You choose,” TBM wife

“I understand your concerns, but if you say a word about your doubts to our kids, we’re over!” TBM Wife

“It’s fine for you to have these doubts, but if you share them with other Mormons, I’ll be forced to discipline you.” Bishop

“Even my wife and kids?” Me

“Especially your wife and kids!” Bishop

“Who are you to deny me my freedom of speech guaranteed by the Constitution?” Me

“I’m your Bishop!” Bishop

“Not anymore! I quit!” Me

Me to TBM wife, ”If you expect me to lie to our kids about the truth, there’s the door. Don’t let it hit you where the good Lord split you on the way out!”

She didn’t and life’s been waaaaay better ever since!

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Posted by: Northern_Lights ( )
Date: April 17, 2023 01:18PM

Most Mormons (in the US anyway, which lets be honest is most mormons) consider themselves Republicans first and Mormons second so it would be whatever Fox news tells them to think about it

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