Maybe they liked their careers so much they ditched their families. Maybe they wanted to be celestial Barbies with no kids hanging around. Maybe they are off doing RS stuff behind the scenes.
I mean, after you've had 1000+ spirit babies, you need to get away sometimes.
the moms are off raising the kids and the dads have visitation when they decide to show up for it. I did all the work and most of the ex-wives of gays I know are doing all the work and paying for almost everything.
Now it is the gay "husband" living in the house I somehow kept, but he is finally helping his son out. It is such a relief that he is taking care of the things he needs done. And I am here living with the two of them. We like to blow the minds of the neighbors and we do. My TBM daughter even enjoys how the mormons react to our lives now.