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T-Bone
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Date: January 08, 2024 10:44PM
I was not blessed with high metabolism. I can look at a piece of chocolate cake and gain a pound. Carbs put me a food coma. A messy divorce put me in a tailspin where I got to over 250 lbs.
My wife is very savvy when it comes to nutrition. When we started dating, I just ate what she ate and dropped 60 lbs effortlessly. Today, I drink lots of water, black coffee only, and sometimes tea - straight, no milk or sugar. Very low carb lifestyle, very little sugar, and a diet that works for me (protein and green, leafy veggies).
Living in a walking city. we don't have a car, and rarely take a taxi. If it's 30 min on foot, we walk. We've even walked an hour to get home after dinner just to get some extra steps in. I go to the gym 2 or 3 times a week. That means stationary bicycle (long enough to watch an episode of my favorite show on Netflix - 45-60 min) and weights.
Living far from family is not always easy. We get along very well. But family dinners usually meant heavy food, massive desserts, and lots of sitting around. Getting a coffee and taking a walk is more my style.
As an amateur photographer, going out to take pictures is more like 8 hours of rucking. My camera bag is very heavy.
I spent part of the day with a friend who was visiting from the US recently. Here are some things I noticed. He's overweight. We walked around Tokyo for about an hour. He was exhausted. I was just getting started. He should have been running me into the ground because he's 10 years younger.
The difference became clear when we stopped at the convenience store. He got a sweetened, fruit-flavored drink. I got water. We went to Starbucks. He got a frap. I got a black coffee.
Then he started to ask me how I lost weight and how I keep in shape. We talked about some things I learned from podcasts; regular exercise, eating around the perimeter of the grocery store (avoiding packaged, processed foods), cold showers, fresh air, sunlight, and grounding. That's where he stopped me. "Oh, come on. Grounding? That hippy nonsense!" (His language was more colorful than that.)
Maybe I'm doing it all wrong. Maybe I'm the idiot. But if you look at us side by side, you'd guess that he's the one that's 10 years older. He followed up by saying that when he gets back to the US, he's going to see a doctor about testosterone replacement therapy.
The biggest change I've made recently is to add cold showers to my daily routine. I tried it once a year or so ago, and got a headache. I hated it. Then I heard a guy on a podcast talking about the benefits of doing a cold plunge, and decided that a cold shower was the best I can do right now. So now it's a part of my daily routine. In the beginning 30 seconds was max, which is up to 3 minutes now.
A week after I started, my wife was giving me a hug and said, "You feel skinnier." Not to mention obvious improvement in wellbeing make the cold showers worth it.
It's not just about lifespan, it's about healspan for me.
So those are some things I've learned by losing 60 lbs and then keeping it off for 9 years. It's a process. Not everybody is willing to do what it takes. And if you're not lucky enough to live in a walking city, it's hard to get those steps in. Not everybody has a hobby that is so fun that they can walk 20,000 steps in a day and not even realize it. And not everybody is going to have a partner that is meticulous about nutrition.
I'm also unapologetic about enjoying steak. It's not for everybody.
Another thing I've learned is to take what works from people who show results, and not worry about whether it's cool or not.