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Date: February 13, 2024 06:24PM
From my reading of the situation, Gardner had already left the church when the incident happened, and the bishop involved was not her ecclesiastical leader.
https://www.jacksonville.com/story/news/crime/2024/02/06/mario-fernandez-saldana-interview-released-in-jared-bridegan-case/72490478007/"Fernandez Saldana would explain how the kids were afraid to ask Bridegan questions over a fear of rejection. Abigail once asked if she could dye her hair purple. Bridegan told Abigail she would not be accepted into the church if she had purple hair. Fernandez Saldana took the children to a Bishop for the Church of Latter-Day Saints, who they happened to be friends with. According to Fernandez Saldana, Bridegan drove to the local Church of Latter-Day Saints in Neptune Beach and confronted the bishop. Fernandez Saldana stated Bridegan got into an argument with the Bishop because he was befriending Gardner. He would go on to explain how Bridegan drove by the bishop's house and this prompted the bishop to contact their legal section."
It sounds like the bishop was just dragged into the middle of a very bad custody dispute and tried to play the role of peacemaker. It does emphasize the fact that mormon bishops have no training to address problems like this. I agree with Silence is Golden that the bishop should have stayed out of it, but if he got involved, it should have been limited to confirming that having purple hair is not a sin.