Posted by:
sunbeep
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Date: April 16, 2024 01:53PM
Those who have been in relationships learn that it requires a give and take on both sides. Each person must accept the flaws of the other or this relationship isn’t going to last for very long.
Imagine for a minute that Randy and Nancy are a couple. Randy gives Nancy a long list of rules that she must follow. Nancy doesn’t want to offend Randy so she tries to follow his rules.
Nancy has a habit of squeezing the toothpaste in the middle and this irritates Randy. He reminds Nancy that this is one of his rules and must be obeyed. A few days later Nancy forgets and leaves the tube with a slight dent in the middle.
Randy notices the dent and immediately calls Nancy into the bathroom. He reminds her that his rules are not to be broken, ever, and are only there to help her to become a better person.
Nancy starts to cry and says that she is sorry and won’t do it again. Randy unfazed, takes away the toothpaste and tells her that she can’t brush her teeth, in his house, for a year.
A few days later Randy caught her brushing her teeth with his toothpaste and she had squeezed it in the middle. He freaks out and calls 12 of his friends to come over. They take Nancy into the bathroom, point to the toothpaste, and demand to know why she did it, when she did it, and how many times she did it.
They send Nancy out into the hall while they discuss this very dire matter. They then call Nancy back into the bathroom and tell her how much they love her but that she can’t live in Randy’s house anymore.
They take away her toothbrush and tell the neighbors that she can’t brush her teeth in any of their houses ever again.
Does this seem a little extreme?