Posted by:
Greyfort
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Date: August 10, 2011 10:04PM
I wrote out an answer, and then it said I couldn't post. LOL Oh well. I said:
"No, you're not a bad person. I'm not your judge and it would never be my place to do so.
If you really want my own personal view on cheating ... well, I think if someone wants to cheat so badly that it's rotting their brains out thinking about it, then something has decidedly gone sideways in their relationship or marriage.
Deal with the root relationship first, and then go on to someone else, rather than trying to carry on a marriage and an affair.
It's just not worth the hurt that it causes. Just watch those daytime talk shows in order to see how much it destroys families. It can involve the loss of respect from one's children and spouse. It just ain't worth it, in my personal opinion.
I hope that in future relationships, that if you ever get to the point where you want to cheat, that instead you'll sit down with your partner and say, "Honey, I think something's gone sideways," and talk it out. Deal with the relationship in which you've made a commitment first.
But having said that, dude, we're all human and not a single one of us is perfect. You won't have a rock thrown at you from me."