...a sexual pleasure organ separate from her reproductive organs?
A woman can rub one out, using her handy external fun botton, without spewing eggs all over the place when she reaches orgasm. In men, orgasm and spewing are inconveniently linked.
So, if God meant for sex to be only for reproduction, why did he decouple The Big O and reproduction in women?
But, on the other hand, women can become impregnated without having an orgasm. Does that mean God wants women breeding whether they enjoy it or not? If so, then why bother giving them the ability to have orgasms?
And if He's going to give women the ability to orgasm during reproduction, then why not make it as easy to attain during copulation as it is for men? Why not turn off women's brains during sex like He did with us men?
Women don't have a little factory according to him. WE ARE the factory!
My theory with mormons is--having been through what I went through--the reason they think gay men can marry women is because all the GAs have suppressed their sexual desire. Sex is ONLY FOR reproduction.
Again--it reminds of "In Sacred Loneliness"--Mormonism, polygamy, is all about LACK OF INTIMACY. When you make sex just about reproduction, then it never includes intimacy. It works really well for SOME men--never have to bond intimately with someone.
I have many "beefs" with God, if there is one--not just this one. How about morning sickness? Pregnancy and what it does to a woman's body. Why don't teeth replace themselves more often? The list goes on and on.
I've often had the same questions in my mind as well. I have an almost psychological aversion to bodily fluids so it's always been one of the less desirable effects of the "O" for me, and a topic of minor jealousy regarding my wife.
Perhaps that's partly why I've stuck to mainly hetero encounters, since gay ones can sometimes be more.. messy.
These kinds of topics are almost obligatorily ended with ;-)
If you go to Discovery.com and look for the show "Curiosity" then find "Why Sex is Fun" you'll get all your questions answered. In fact, you can see a few somewhat graphic videos if you want. You can watch them and, perhaps, download them.
My favorite part was the woman who gave herself an orgasm just by thinking about it. No touching - just thinking - and no man required, either.
Seriously, I have always had trouble understanding the female body, and why it was designed like it is.
When I was a teenager, a friend and I were discussing the mysteries of the female monthly cycle. I was still in the closet at the time.
I rhetorically asked him why God would give women an egg (or two) every month, when they could only have a child about once a year. That made no sense to me at the time.
Don't get me wrong - I've taken part in procreation (2 kids), and I'm glad it worked.