Posted by:
subliminal
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Date: December 21, 2011 06:32PM
I just need to know how to say no to going to mutual! I already stopped going to church a couple months ago. I still go to mutual sometimes because Sister X comes over and takes my little sister to their activities every second and fourth Wednesdays. (My sister says she's just doing it for the free food. Sucks for the morg.)
Anyways Sister X always asks me if I want to go, and I'm sick of saying yes! Being the quiet person I am, it's hard to say no because I just stand there and nod to whatever they're saying. When I actually do say no, she say's I'll have fun and to get my coat on. So by then I don't know what do to and just go with them. But I don't want to go! I have better things to do! But I can't just tell them to fuck off or I'll get in trouble with my mom. (I'm still under 18) My mom doesn't care whether we go or not.
How can I be assertive? Any excuses I can tell them so I won't have to go?