Posted by:
lazarus
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Date: December 22, 2011 12:41AM
I told my dad a few months back that I was at a point in my life where I didn't want to have anything to do with the church. My dad is an interesting guy. Everything is black or white for him, and Glenn Beck might not be God, but he certainly is an administering angel.
Anyway, we haven't talked much about the church, but we were having a conversation about something else and I brought beliefs into the conversation. Not religion, just what I believe in as a person. He told me that he didn't have his temple recommend and hasn't been to the temple since he was released as branch president (more than three years ago). He said he was talking to the stake president and told him he probably was worthy enough to get one if he just answered the questions without much thought, but he was taking it as time to reflect and make sure he was honestly answering each of the questions. He said he will get a recommend when he feels ready again.
Honestly, it made me realize that I shouldn't avoid discussing religion with my dad. Maybe I can have more of an influence on him than I thought.
Anyone have any advice? He is a big reader of the mopologists, so I can't throw anything at him that they cover. I have tried to just talk about how happy I have been since I left, but I want to throw something a bit heavier at him.