Posted by:
Exmo Dad
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Date: December 23, 2011 10:04AM
I found it relatively easy for me to leave Mormonism once I found out it's all make-believe.
But have found it much harder to say no to TBM relatives who insist we spend our holiday dinners with them.
I used to try to make excuses but realize that it's not necessary to justify why I am not interested in going.
A simple, No Thanks is all that's neededbut there must be other reasons why I just can't do that.
Most likely, it's that I don't want them to feel they can blame me for having abandoned them. Which is what they tend to do. I don't quite know how to articulate this but I've felt abandoned by them, right after I left the cult. They have shown no genuine interest in me, so I don't like the charade of pretending everything is wonderful at holidays, when it isn't.
I know lots of people try to grin and bear holiday gatherings, but I am running out of time (health wise) to do the things I want with my life, so this year, it will have ot be simply "No Thanks"