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Posted by: brigantia ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:15AM

Our family is exhausted with grief. Thankfully she died surrounded by our love and we expressed to her our gratitude for all the joy she has brought to us. Our little angel finally checked out of the prison that has been her body and is now free and at peace.

We have excised 'mormon' from her personal information and this had to be done officially to stave off any threat of interference from them.

Now it begins, all over again, with family gathering to say goodbye to another at the end of this dreadful 2011.

Thank you all for your loving support and kind words.

Briggy

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Posted by: CA girl ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:19AM

Oh, Briggy, this has been such a difficult year for you. I had tears in my eyes reading your news. I wish I could be there to give you a hug or at least I wish I could think of something brilliant to say to make you feel better. I'll send thoughts of strength your way instead.



Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/29/2011 01:19AM by CA girl.

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Posted by: summer ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:19AM

Hugs to you, Briggy. I'm so very sorry for your loss. How comforting for your sister that her loved ones were at her side as she passed.

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Posted by: Raptor Jesus ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:20AM


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Posted by: honestone ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 11:29PM

+1

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Posted by: steve benson ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:24AM


Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 12/29/2011 01:48AM by steve benson.

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Posted by: The Man in Black ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:31AM


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Posted by: SusieQ#1 ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:32AM

I'm so sorry for your loss. May you find peace.

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Posted by: seamaiden ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:45AM

I'm newer to this board, but I now how it feels to lose a loved one. The best thing I can say is to grieve, allow yourself to do that! Your a caring, loving person, and it natural! On average it takes 2 years to really get over a loss.. and that is an AVERAGE!! If it takes you 6.. That is OK!!

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Posted by: Helen ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:54AM

Grief is a tough journey. You are in my thoughts.

May 2012 be a more peaceful and less stressful year for you and yours.

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Posted by: Cheryl ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:03AM


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Posted by: Odell Campbell ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:21AM

My condelences to you and your family> may you find some peace in knowing that so many here love you.

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Posted by: FreeRose ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:46AM

May peace be with you knowing your angel is basking in the light of love. Hugs to you and your family at this time.

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Posted by: GNPE ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:51AM

Hugs from all of us; it's always best to let it work out YOUR WAY...

we'll be here, when u need us.

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Posted by: bring'em young ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 04:29AM

Sincere sympathy and sorrow for your loss Brigantia,peace be with you and your family.

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Posted by: sandie ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 04:35AM

Sending hugs and loves your direction.

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Posted by: Susan I/S ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 04:50AM

This year has given you more than anyone should have to take. I am glad you have people around you that love you during this hard time.

PLEASE take some time to take care of yourself.

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Posted by: Jersey Girl ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 08:10AM

I am so sorry, Briggie. Love and good thoughts to you and your family in this dark time.

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Posted by: Greyfort ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 08:16AM

I'm so sorry. Huge cyber hugs are sent to you.

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Posted by: angsty ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 08:18AM

You have been through so much and my heart aches for you. You'll be in my thoughts.

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Posted by: knotheadusc ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 08:23AM

You really have had a bad year. I'm terribly sorry for your loss.

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Posted by: Nevermodoc ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 08:30AM

Deepest condolences. May many good memories live on with you.

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Posted by: kookoo4kokaubeam ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:28AM


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Posted by: Doxi ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:36AM

What a lousy year this has been for so many...

Sending you loves and hugs.

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Posted by: nowI'mfound ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:39AM

So so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that we are all thinking about you, sending love your way, and wishing you and your family a happier 2012. Hugs...

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Posted by: escapee ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:45AM

I'm sorry for your loss.


Susan

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Posted by: matt ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:47AM

She is at peace.

My best wishes and love you and your family. I know, it's a pretty meagre gift, but it's all I have.

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Posted by: tiptoes ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:50AM

Briggy I can somewhat understand a little having lost 5 people in a matter of six weeks at the end of 2003. Loves and (((hugs))). There is no magic amount of time in which to process...take all the time you need.

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Posted by: wings ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:02AM

There are few words. I am deeply saddened for you and your loved one's. Take care of you, Briggy.
Big hugs,
wings

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Posted by: cludgie ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:05AM

Over the last few years your familiar RfM letters have influenced my decisions and made me think of you as a dear friend, and I'm so sorry to hear of these terrible losses in your family. Best to you all during these sad times.

mt

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Posted by: Hervey Willets ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:13AM


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Posted by: orphan ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:16AM

I am sorry for your loss. Am sending warm thoughts your way Jim

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Posted by: Just Browsing ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:18AM

Yes she lost the battle --but because of the life she led as a decent human being, she won the war.. The passing of others is never an easy time. Dwell on the memories and happiness she brought you and those who loved her.

{{{[[[BRIGGIE]]]}}} Cyberhugs to Briggie

JB

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Posted by: Timothy ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:21AM


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Posted by: Tahoe Girl ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:22AM

I'm so sorry for you, briggy. It has been such a sad, difficult year for you.

Hugs to you.

TG

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Posted by: plodder ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:24AM

So sorry for your loss, you are in our thoughts.

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Posted by: michael ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:39AM

"Death is that state in which one exists only in the memory of others. Which is why it is not an end. No goodbyes. Just good memories. Hailing frequencies closed, sir." (Tasha Yar)

My sincere condolences for your loss.

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Posted by: looking in ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 11:08AM

Briggy, you have had a very difficult time recently. All of my sympathy and warm thoughts to you and your family as you say goodbye to your sister.

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Posted by: greenkat ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 11:35AM

I am so sorry for your loss.
greenkat

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Posted by: wine country girl ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:01PM


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Posted by: anagrammy ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:07PM

You are part of our community and we stand with you at this dark time of great sorrow. I hope you can feel our virtual arms around you as you say goodbye to this beloved sister.

May your wonderful memories comfort you.

Anagrammy

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Posted by: catnip ( )
Date: December 31, 2011 01:08AM

We ARE a community and we tend to "be there" for each other, especially during the most difficult times.

Love and hugs to you and the family.

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Posted by: Otremer ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:23PM


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Posted by: alex71ut ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 01:25PM


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Posted by: intellectualfeminist ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:11PM

My sincerest condolences to you and your family, Brigantia. I am so glad you have the love and support of these wonderful people at RfM. May you be surrounded with the love and support of your family and friends at this time as well.

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Posted by: Voce d' Sicce ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:16PM

at times such as this.

Please accept our deepest sympathies, our hopes and best wishes for you, your loved ones.

Sicce and Family

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Posted by: introvertedme ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:34PM

My deepest condolences. What a year you've had. We're behind you all the way and will offer support every way possible.

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Posted by: bignevermo ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 02:39PM

you are one great sister!!! :)

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Posted by: Claire Ferguson ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 03:23PM

Sincere condolences. Sending very best wishes to you. xx

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Posted by: brigantia ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 04:12PM

and I thank you all so much for this - it has brought me more comfort than you know.

Today I have been busy arranging the funeral and dealing with all the official stuff at the Registrar's office. This has kept me on auto-pilot all day and I'm relieved to have done those awful tasks that are necessary at these times.

We will be once again picking up family members at the airport so at least we will all be together for New Year. I'm not sure how we will deal with the turn of the year but 2012 will hopefully bring some happiness back. We shall look forward to the Spring when the pain may be lessened a little and we can remember the two that are passed with fondness and hopefully a smile here and there.

Bless you all for your kindness and support. I do hope that I can thank as many as possible in person, maybe at the Conference in October, all being well.

In the meantime I wish everyone at RfM a wonderful New Year and a prosperous 2012 to one and all.

With heartfelt thanks

Briggy

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Posted by: Soft Machine ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 05:04PM


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Posted by: Adult of god ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 05:06PM

but didn't get to a computer till now. Thanks for the update. Take care.

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Posted by: bigred ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:30PM

So sorry for your loss. Sending light, love and peace. May 2012 be a much better year for all of us!

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Posted by: Thread Killer ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:31PM

My deepest condolences and may flights of angels sing her to her rest.

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Posted by: CL2 ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:39PM


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Posted by: dagny ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 09:43PM

You've had a tough year. So sorry for your pain and loss.

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Posted by: adamisfree2006 (formerly on_my_way_out_2) ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:09PM


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Posted by: NewNameNeeded ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:12PM

This has to be such a difficult time for you and your family. Try and take it just a day at time.

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Posted by: blacksheep25 ( )
Date: December 29, 2011 10:56PM

So sorry for your loss.

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Posted by: my2cents ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 01:21AM

Briggy, no one can take away what you have stored in your heart. Sincere condolences.

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Posted by: loveskids ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 02:02AM

I am so sorry for your loss Briggy. I've lost 2 siblings,one 45 years ago. I still have fun dreams about him.

Take care of yourself and do all the mourning you need too.Hugs.

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Posted by: marisa ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 02:28AM

So sorry for your loss.

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Posted by: shannon ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 04:01AM


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Posted by: Beth (NLI) ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 08:24AM

Thinking of you and loving you.

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Posted by: why nut ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 08:25AM

So sorry for your loss, Briggy.

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Posted by: NeverMo in CA ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 02:39PM

My sincerest condolences to you and your family. it's especially difficult when loss occurs during the holidays. :-(

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Posted by: adoylelb ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 03:37PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, especially during this time of year.

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Posted by: Itzpapalotl ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 04:35PM


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Posted by: SL Cabbie ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 05:46PM

I'm at a total loss right now, but I have your e-mail addy...

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Posted by: jazzskeeter ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 07:05PM

My condolences. Hope you find comfort.

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Posted by: Friend of a Mo ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 07:21PM

My sincere condolences. I hope you can feel all the love being sent your way and it gives you strength.

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Posted by: PtLoma ( )
Date: December 30, 2011 11:22PM

My condolence and prayers heading your way.

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Posted by: ymountain ( )
Date: December 31, 2011 01:11AM

So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you!! I hope 2012 is a better year for you and your family.

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Posted by: Calypso ( )
Date: December 31, 2011 01:50AM

Hugs Briggy!!! Don't know you but I have genuine love for you and your fam during this incredibly hard time...hang in there!!!

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Posted by: xMo ( )
Date: December 31, 2011 05:09AM

Sorry to hear such news. May she journey well! And may we all have the strength to bear up when our own time inevitably arrives, as it must for all that lives.

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Posted by: LongTimegone ( )
Date: December 31, 2011 06:21AM

What a heart-wrenching year for you and your loved ones, Briggy. My condolences for your loss.

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Posted by: Diapson ( )
Date: December 31, 2011 02:07PM

I'm so sorry for your loss and your pain. You will be in my thoughts many times during the coming days, weeks, and months.

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