Posted by:
helamonster
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Date: January 06, 2012 07:40PM
Mrs. Hela has been asked by a TBM friend to be in her wedding party.
This friend already knows DW won't be part of the temple ceremony, so no issue there.
It's the ring ceremony afterward for friends and family who can't go into the temple.
This friend is in the SLC area, and we are in SoCal. The whole thing will happen in April, which is a peak time in Mrs. Hela's work, so she may not be able to get the vacation leave, and even if she does, her boss will be resentful anyway. Finally, this friend thinks the Mrs. is a lot closer to her than is actually the case.
Oh, the kicker is that this TBM friend is doing the usual mormon thing: She's giving my wife the "choice" to be there, but strongly implying my wife better make the "correct" choice.
How to handle this?
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 01/06/2012 07:41PM by helamonster.