Date: January 31, 2012 06:11PM
Maybe you should kick Fatboy to the curb and find someone who really cares for you. I had a husband like that once...always going on-and-on about this woman or that woman, flirting with them right in front of me--while he looked like he was 10 months pregnant, dressed like a dork, and was intellectually stuck in the 10th grade. He turned out to be a bi-sexual! Bi-sexual was not his real problem, being a #1 A**hole was!
Any spouse who would treat you that way is a spouse in name only. Life is too short to live with a person who has so little regard for you or your feelings.
The next time you and he are at a neighborhood "get together" and she is there be sure to tell her in the loudest voice that you have all the things that he has been saying about her and how it has made you feel. Ask the other wives if their husbands do them that way or are you the only one married to a jerk! Keeping quiet is letting him have the power...show the neighborhood what a jerk he is and see how he likes it. Yes, it will make everyone uncomfortable...who cares...have you been comfortable? I wish I had created a scene or two when I had the chance instead of being quiet so no one would be uncomfortable.
As for his weight problem, by all means point it out and anything else that you can find wrong with him...even if you have to make it up. Let him see what it feels like...that is what he deserves and more!
By-the-way, I am now married to a wonderful loving man who only has eyes for me. The jerk was married two more times, one lasted two weeks; the other three weeks. I was a fool to put up with his sh*t like I did (old story, because of the children).