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Date: February 06, 2012 06:13PM
Mia posted this to the previous thread about a priesthood leader touching incident that was not well received, and led to an embarrassing angry response from a dude at church.
Similar happened to Mia:
"The sp came up to me in the foyer and put his arm across my shoulders and pulled me towards him. (GAG)
I detest the slimmy sob and he knows it. I turned way to get out of his grasp, and in a voice for all in the foyer to hear, I told him not to EVER touch me again. ick. I gotta go take a shower now."
We had a guy in our ward in the eighties that fancied himself a profit, and was held to be such by many of the butt-kissing wannabee ladder-climbers. He also had a penchant for hugging, big time.
He usually reserved his hugging for the "sisters". Occasionally with a guy, I assume just to make it look like he wasn't a perv for the ladies :)
One day he came from the parking lot into the classroom hallway on his way to chapel, and my DW happened to be going in the door at the other end of the hall. He made a beeline for her, and proceeded to bear hug her to the point of lifting her feet right off the floor! Held it for about 30 seconds too. I was following DW about 30' back, and when I saw that, I diverted into the patio and split. No way I wanted him to hug me like that! Creepy...
DW says that he also hugged her one other time at Ace Hardware, in public!
I remember we had a Utah family in one town ward that actually lived out of town in the hugger's ward. But they drove the long distance into town with their big family and van every week etc., because, I heard, they had had a problem with someone hugging the sister in our ward. It had to have been this guy, the profit. He had been a bishop of this ward too, and later became stake patriarch.
This is in Hawaii, where the aloha spirit and casual in-church hugging are pretty well established, but this guy was just way over the top even here in alohaland. I guess it must be pretty intoxicating to have the magic "mantle"!