Posted by:
NotWife
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Date: March 29, 2012 12:26AM
I divorced my husband more than a decade ago because he was abusive. We were sealed in the temple, married 8 years and had four kids all born in the covenant and baptized at 8. I raised the kids and he saw them maybe once a year tops. He married a nonMormon girl but was not sealed to her, and they have 2 kids now.
I left the church about 6 years ago, remarried a non-Mormon, and have a child with my new husband. I wrote a letter to the bishop, stake pres, and SLC stating that I am no longer a member and want my name removed from the records. I got a letter back from SLC stating that it had been done.
So now, years later, I get a call from my ex's bishop. He says the ex wants to be sealed to his new wife and kids in the temple but wants to stay sealed to me and my kids as well. I told him I am not a member but he says there was never a cancellation of sealing, and the ex wants to stay sealed to the kids so he just wants a clearance to be sealed to us both! Bishop asked me to write a letter stating my feelings on the matter.
I am annoyed and am trying to decide between two choices.
choice A) I could write and say, I am not a member, I do not believe in this mumbo jumbo so I don't care what you do, go ahead.
choice B) I could write and say I do not want to be in a polygamous marriage and demand a cancellation of sealing before he is sealed to her.
I don't believe in it, I think it is ridiculous, but am wondering about the effects on my kids (who are teens now and don't believe). If he does get a cancellation of sealing, is he still sealed to our kids? Because I don't like the idea of MY children being sealed to him and his new wife!
What would you do?