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Gay Philosopher
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Date: April 01, 2012 09:52PM
Hi All,
Why does John Dehlin stay in the Church? He's an atheist who knows that the Church's foundational beliefs are false.
Does he stay in because:
1. His wife will divorce him if he leaves (and take the children);
2. His parents will disown him;
3. He would feel socio-culturally rudderless if he left; or
4. He would lose the attention that he currently gets (i.e. social standing) as the creator of the Mormon Stories Podcast?
The problem that I have with his staying is very simple. He's intelligent, and is pursuing a doctorate in clinical psychology. He knows that the Church is false. Nevertheless, he goes out of his way to not "offend" active members. He's not living what he knows to be truth, but instead participating in an organization that oppressed blacks, continues to oppress women, and actively opposes homosexuals. To not fight injustice is tantamount to participating in it.
No amount of trying to change the Church from within can alter the fact that the Church is false. Joseph Smith was a liar, charlatan, and fraud whose storytelling destroyed countless other people's lives, and that continues to this day. By remaining within the Church, John is only helping to perpetuate this, even if he, himself, isn't engaged in directly preaching hatred and falsehoods.
Why is John Dehlin living a lie?
Furthermore, why hasn't the Church stopped him? It knows that he's an atheist. If this were the Cold War era, and he were a communist sympathizer, he'd be on the CIA's watch list. There seems to be little doubt that the Church is watching him like a hawk, and will *nail* him at the first misstep. And rest assured that they can't wait!
Who is holding a gun to John's head? Why is he terrified of leaving? What is it that he's trying to protect?
It's not just his life that's at issue, but the lives of his children. Will his boy(s) go on a mission, and be shot at, and killed? What, then? How would John feel to know that his complicit kowtowing to the Church's false doctrines, which he knew to be false, caused his child(ren) to die?
Most of us try to discover what's true from what's false, and lead our lives in accordance with what's true. John seems to be doing the opposite, and it's difficult to see how this behavior is anything but cowardly. He seems not to be able to imagine the consequences of his ongoing membership in the Church. He seems to believe that it's benign. But it's not. He is unintentionally aiding and abetting a morally criminal organization that--we have to admit--tears families apart, and prevents families from forming.
Why?
Steve