Ok, a quick question for you all. Did you find once you left the church or even started stepping away from the church that part of that transition included an increased sex drive for those things once considered "impure" while active? I have noticed a change in my desires and now that my wife has also stepped back a little, (she goes every other week or so, asked to be released from all callings, no VT, HT and no tithing) she also seems a little more adventurous in the bedroom especially if she has had a few margaritas:-) I think it stems from the built in guilt of sexual pleasure being bad, or the thought of doing something "bad" as consenting adults is now gone. Anyway, we have not had this much fun in the bedroom in all our years of marriage. Just wanted to see if we are alone in this or if others have experienced similar situations like ours.

Mutually exclusive except for breeding.....no fun allowed, don't ya know....