Posted by:
exmowife
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Date: May 01, 2012 11:56PM
This last weekend DH & I helped with the installation of a new community garden here in our little town. This meant rubbing shoulders with the LDS community that he used to be involved with. I didn't really know any of them, but he knew just about all of them by first name. It all went fine while we worked. Afterward I followed a woman in her car with my truck full of a third person's garden tools in my truck. Her enthusiastic hug and 'see you again' when we were parting was over the top to me, but I remained polite.
This evening, right after 5 PM, I watched a couple of mishies at the top of my driveway for a few minutes. They didn't seem to be able to make up their mind if they were going to come to the door or not. I was visible from the door, but didn't answer the ring or the knock. There was nothing I wanted to hear and I was busy enough that I didn't want to be interrupted.
DH drove up nearly twenty minutes later and those mishies came bounding out of our TBM neighbor's house asking him if they could help him with anything while he exited his truck. Naturally, he said no thank you.
As the mormon community is aware of where we live and typically the mishies bypass our home (I have watched them walk by while in my yard) I wondered if this was not a direct result of our proximity on Saturday. DH's family is still deeply TBM, his youngest son is on his mission (thankfully things seem to be going ok for him), and those that knew DH in his TBM days have continued to challenge his testimony/lack of - it is the first time I have been this exposed to their general community.
With your experience, what do you think: coincidence or no?