Posted by:
wings
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Date: May 03, 2012 10:47AM
May I ask you some questions? What happened when you were 12? You said your Mother "ditched" you at that time.
Did you leave the church at 12 and get shunned at that time? Did your Dad get legal custody, or move you away from your Mom?
Divorce is hell on kids. And often, they feel they must pick which parent they will be loyal to as a survival tool.
Suckafoo's story is a good example. We often detach in order to survive the trama of a divorce and loss. Sometimes we stay in unimaginable situations as to never experience that loss and trama again. Perhaps you do not really know the entire story of the "ditching", and now the years and distance have crippled the relationship. I am saddened for your dilemma.
I hope you have peace no matter what you decide. Only you know what happened in your life. Whatever it takes to feel at peace with yourself....that is the choice I would make.
There are no Norman Rockwell prints in real life, really.
Hugs.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Freedom_from_want_1943-Norman_Rockwell.jpg