Posted by:
DonnyOsmondMorg
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Date: September 13, 2012 05:50PM
Roxy, don't be so hard on yourself, for gods sake...you've had several children! I struggle with weight and have all my life, but who cares what people think if YOU like what you wear.
I've mentioned in previous postings that it seems to me that Mormon women go out of their way to look "frumpy", but who cares what I think anyway? I see women in the church who wear really baggy clothes, no makeup, no hair color or styling of any kind, "Mom shoes" (the hideous 1" or 2" heel), etc. dressing and feeling attractive is not all about weight...
Most of the women I see in church seem to pride themselves on just HOW LITTLE they put into their appearance, at church anyway.
I personally dont get it then if they complain about other women who DO take the extra 15 minutes it takes to put on age appropriate attractive clothing, contact lenses, a little makeup, shoes & clothes that don't age them 30 years, a decent hair cut/color every 4 months or so....it's not about money, it's about feeling good in the body you're in right now.
Could care less about comments I occasionally get for wearing a halter dress (HET, IT'S FLORIDA, IT'S HOTTTTT!!!), 4"heels, makeup, contacts, etc....and it's always the church WOMEN who may make a comment or give me the "evil eye" that we women give to only other women....
I don't comment on their LACK of trying to look a little attractive, feminine, whatever, but then I don't get the remarks that come my way for DOING that 15 minutes before I walk into church or work or wherever. I happen to LOVE 4" stilettos, and no, they don't hurt any more than "toe shoes" I wear in ballet class that everyone thinks are so beautiful. Now THEY hurt..
Stilletos are NOTHING to anyone who ever took ballet classes (and yes, I am 53 yrs old and still take ballet classes even with the extra 30lbs I'v gained over the years).
We all know with LDS it's simply a control thing, that's all it ever has been. Now look in your closet and put on something you FEEL GOOD ABOUT WEARING. Clothes, heels and hair and makeup are fun to me....
....remember the old song from the plat "South Pacific"??"I Enjoy Being A Girl"!!!!!