Posted by:
the one and only
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Date: June 06, 2012 09:49AM
Help me gear up. My husband tried to casually mention, as he walked out the door to work, that he is going to pay his tithing from our vacation/savings account. A little back history, we have always had 10% of our paychecks direct deposited into an account that nether one of us uses and at the end of the year we write on big tithing check. Last year, when I was still going along with this shit, I told hubby I want 10% for a vacation fund, he said he wants to match that with savings, and a new account was created for this purpouse. Low and behold 6 months into this year he tells me he stopped paying into the tithing account, and wants to pay from vacation fund. I said we will talk about it tonight, as he was just about to walk out the door.
These are the arguments I have so far.
1. That fund was started as a vacation/savings fund. What 10% do you want to take? My vacation? Or our family's savings?
2. If you want to spend 10% of our income on a church that I don't agree with, then I want to do the same. I chose the westboro babtist church. (this is the church that protests military funerals)
That's it folks I need help. The hubster is very laid back non confrontational kind of guy, so in your face mean arguments just don't work with him.
He stated that tithing was part of our marriage covenants, I retorted that he was the one that chose to break marriage covenants first.