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wings
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Date: June 08, 2012 08:43AM
In 2003, I was still able to speak to a man about my excommunication from 1978 and the details such as dates and people involved with the 3 denials for sealing cancellation. I made request with my exH during SWK years, ETB years, and GBH years. The man had assisted me in in the early 90's with information when my exH again wished to try for a sealing cancellation. This was not Greg Dodge, who I also have spoken to over the years. They are all, quite plesant to deal with. The man, oddly enough was also named Greg. He would give me dates, of everything, my name and all notations of denials, and items in the record. My record showed my membership record as excommunicated and the reason. My surname is still the same as my exH I was sealed to. Even though we are civilly divorced, 1978.
This man (the other Greg) was once the confidential info guy (decades ago) the membership records people would transfer me to. This happened when I said I was excommunicated and needed to speak to someone about sealing information. He had changed departments long ago...at least the last 15 years I spoke to him. Not sure his title after he left confidential membership records. He is the person that explained to me the way Mormonism has excommunicated MEMBERS records forever, in case they want to become rebaptised and when worthy.... have a "restoration of blessings". He explained info about the CHI stating a name removal cancels the blessings of sealing, and what the diff' is between "blessing of sealing" and actually having "sealing cancellation". He said there had been a lot of problems with confused people thinking falsely that sealing was cancelled, when it is only the Office of the First Presidency that can cancel a sealing. I could tell he was not pleased with that wording regarding name removal.
I am still shown as "sealed" and "excommunicated" to my exH, however; I personally remain in some (their words) suspended status until I am rebaptised. He also explained this can be done post death no sooner than a year, by family. Sealings are considered eternal, discipline is temporal. I think that is the terminology he gave me. I took notes, but they are packed in a chest and don't have my first cup of coffee in me ;)
The process of requesting a sealing cancellation had to begin with the local bishop in 2003 (in the 80's I walked a letter into the COB and that was my process). I remember speaking to this man when he returned from lunch and had to wait for a computer to get online after the paperwork from paper files went into computers. I can not imagine just how many people have moved and processed my excommunicated "membership" record in 34 years. I suppose it would be noted if I was reported by someone to be polygamous, incarcerated for murder, or some horrid thing like sex outside of marriage;)
One thing I know. Members remain in the system, and are updated based on things like sealing cancellation requests and denials. I also know my present exMo husband personally requested his own excommunication, prior to the late 1980's change that made name removal a recognized process. My husband had no idea if the Mormon's ever followed through or kept a record, and left at that time to join a different religion. I asked him to call about two years ago to find out if they did ex him since he never went to any excommunication trial. Yes, husband was excommunicated and it happened in 1983.
Edit: My husband and I were just discussing this post and he added info. He was not an active member, but one of those baptised, inactive kids in Utah, if you know what I mean. He said he requested name removal because of that new religion directing him to get out of Mormonism before baptism. He indeed, was called and told he needed to speak with the bishopric. (So, I assume this was a court of love.) He said he was asked to leave the room while they prayed about it. The men then called him back into the room. He does not remember any words of excommunication and thought he was just removed from the records, as he requested...until I asked him to call. He also said they sent him flowers and said he was welcome to return if he ever wished. Any former bishop care to weigh in?
Records are kept. I think most old timers here know that. They also have info added, even excommunicated or name removed "members". This is again, in case pigs fly and the person exed or name removed wishes to be rebaptised. If not, they are kept so they can be dead dunked no sooner than one year post death. I am positive I will be dead dunked one year and one day post death.
Charming cult.
Edited 1 time(s). Last edit at 06/08/2012 10:37AM by wings.