Posted by:
imaworkinonit
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Date: June 29, 2012 05:58PM
I think I would take another angle, just so you don't piss her off more. Maybe a less evil company A, might be good. I've seen people use a car dealer analogy . . . where you need to go to neutral sources on a car, rather than just trusting what the dealer says.
I think you would benefit from reading "Combatting Cult Mind Control", by Steven Hassan
The problem is that Mormons are deathly afraid of leaving the church. It's an irrational fear, because the church is absolute BS.
http://freedomofmind.com/Media/bookCombatting.php He has another book I haven't read, but probably very good.
But the most important thing he says in that book is that if you take the direct approach to attacking someone's beliefs, their defenses are going to kick in, and they won't listen to anything. She has been pre-programmed (if you'll forgive the word) to reject ANYTHING critical or damaging to Mormonism. And that includes you. Tread lightly.
Other important topics involve empowering a person to think for themselves. She basically needs to overcome her FEAR of reading anything that will challenge her beliefs. I think I would emphasize the fact that the truth will not only withstand scrutiny, but will be vindicated by it. If the church is true, it has nothing to hide, and studying it will strengthen her/your testimony. And start with church-approved sources. Buy EVERYTHING you use with her at LDS bookstores, at first, or from neutral sources like Barnes and Noble for science/archeaological stuff.
Another tack I've seen people leaving the church use is to beg their loved ones to HELP them see their errors, and study it out together. If you take that approach sincerely, prepared to re-evaluate all that you've learned with her, and question your conclusions about the church (based on the evidence ONLY, not emotional appeals or threats), she might be willing to go there with you. If she refuses to look, like the old catholic leaders refused to look through Galileo's telescope, it just means she's afraid and inflexible. And I would venture to say that kind of reaction implies that she knows somewhere deep inside that it's NOT true.
Anyway, 'nuf said for now.