Posted by:
angeybabey
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Date: December 17, 2010 05:16AM
When I was 19 and had gone through a bishop's court and had completed a probationary period, my Bishop and Stake President insisted that I tell my future husband (whom I hadn't met yet) that I was a virgin when I was not. They said because I had repented of my sins it was as if they had never happened. I didn't think it was a good idea which is why the Bishop had the Stake President tell me as well. Well I did what they said but after about 12 years into the marriage I felt that my husband and I were so close that I could tell him anything so I told him the truth. He tried to deal with it but he said the moment that I told him the truth he stopped loving me. We had a fourth child after that but things went down hill from then on and we were divorced after seventeen years of marriage. At the time I told him he was Elders Quorum President and I was Primary Chorister. Now on his facebook profile he has "Never again" under religion and I have "Recovering from......" There is more to my story and once again I would like to say that I'm looking for help writing it but I was just wondering if anyone else was given this kind of advise.