Posted by:
Xyandro
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Date: August 06, 2012 01:29PM
My family has a family dinner every month where we all hang out, let cousins play, etc. We usually have a pretty good time.
Lately, however, things have been a bit more strained. Some reasons:
1) I left the church (formally resigned)
2) My sister and her husband both have stated that they no longer believe and will not be attending any more. (This leaves 2/5 kids as active mormon.)
3) My sister (same one) has decided not to have her baby (due end of August) blessed.
4) My brother (disbelieving for quite some time now) decided not to grace us with his presense (4th month running)
5) I'm getting divorced due to being gay. My wife is wonderful and is still attending family get-togethers and stuff (as am I with her family). We're still great friends and are both committed to being coparents regardless of what happens. My parents, however, have spent a lot of effort judging me but very little trying to understand.
Due to all of these factors, my TBM mom spent the majority of our "family-together-time" crying by herself in the other room. She has no desire to research the church and is making herself miserable due to its influence.
I hate hate hate the stupid mormon church.