Posted by:
ziggamoth
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Date: December 22, 2010 12:26PM
I'm glad to hear that, at your age, you see things as you do. Hold on to your sister, you will be a great support to each other.
There is a lot of great advice here, and if you are forced to attend all church activities, then I would really listen to rodolfo and use the time to better yourself. Writing in a diary-type-thing is also great, I used to do that. It also helps with studying. When you hear something that screams "WRONG!" then write it down and study it and find out why it is wrong. This way, when asked what you are doing, you are studying the topics of discussion that were made during (insert class/activity here) and you are not lying. But it also helps you to be able to fully articulate your points when people ask questions or you want to express your feelings.
darkprincess also had some great ideas if you just can't sit through the lessons/talks anymore. Get out, but do it with helping others around you. It might also give you time to digest things around you.
Don't be afraid to express your opinion, just do it politely but clearly. Show that it is more then just teenage rebellion, it is founded in study and logic. Be smart. Do this with your sister.
When you turn 18, your life will be your own to run as you see fit.
That's my opinion. If you are forced to go, make the most it to better yourself until you can change the situation.
BTW, I'm new here too, and it's been 4 years since I have officially left the lies (inactive for about 5 years before that). I went on my mission, got married the temple, the whole bit before I realized what I felt when I was growing up. If it doesn't fit, it doesn't fit, don't force it. But as you are still under 18, play nice until you have the power to change the situation. By doing this, it will help down the road with your relationship with your entire family. Not saying it's going to be easy, but it does help.
Good luck and good for you!