Posted by:
CA girl
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Date: September 13, 2012 01:24AM
I wasn't home and neither was DS but my daughter reported that the YM leader dropped by and asked my husband that question. Why can't Mormons see how messed up it is that they assume the problem is with the person not attending? And why do they assume WE want our son to attend? Why would we cooperate in making him feel comfortable somewhere we don't want him to be? And why would he feel uncomfortable with a group of boys he's known since he was in elementary school?
Listen up, former-first-minion-now-YM-leader ... My son feels comfortable around these boys but he doesn't want to come clean the church with them. He has real friends he goes camping with. He'd rather be in school taking an AP class than learning about mythological Nephites and Lamanites. He'd rather be watching The Big Bang Theory than going to Thursday night brainwashing about missions and paying tithing. He's tired of fun activities being cancelled because of budget cuts or leader apathy.
Anyway 1) I still need a good comeback for this comment - I think I'm going to pretend I think YML is warning me that the boys make others uncomfortable and sympathize with him about the boys he has to work with, assuring him DS is comfortable working with difficult children. 2) I still need a new name for this wretched former bishopric member who even Bishop Jackwagon couldn't tolerate and released mid-term. DH says "little shit" is inappropriate for mixed-age company. 3) Oh, and of course, this guy dropped by unannounced.